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Me and my ex broke up a little over 3 months ago after 11 months of being engaged. Shortly afterwords she has a new boyfriend. She told me that i was the only person that she could ever love. I believed her but after begging her to get back together she wont.. Is it normal to hate her, the type of car she drives, her friends, and everything else to do with her after all this?
yea, its normal i guess but not good. this is from the girls view you explained in your story. i broke up with my bf after being engaged and he wanted me so bad. we was always on and off. and i had known this one boy and when i met the other guy i was just smitten. he made me feel special and everything and i had feelings that i hadnt felt snce i first fell in lov with the guy i was with befor. he wanted to get back with me so bad and i kinda led him on. but however i wanted us to remain okayy. his mom however had to get involved and then my sister started all this drama it was a nasty break up. anyways. he called me and cussed me out and caled me all thses bad names when all hell broke loose. and now we never talk ever. i am very happy with my current boyfriend i was with befor. however sometimes its hard to go places that was like "our" place like chinesse and stuff. and he bought me this rabbit and elephant stuff i still keep. our break u was rlly ruff. at times i miss him. but he wasnt happy with me. i could look in his eyes and just see his hatred to me. and it was like when i looked in the new boys eyes i felt comfortable. maybe i was vulnerable, who knows. but i couldnt be happier now. i wish he didnt have these feelings owards me cause it does hurt to have someone in your life for 2 years and then they just go away and not even a decent goodbye. its a tuff thing. but if he really loved me then he would understand he made me leave. he didnt look at me with the eyes i feel in love with 2 years ago. and i wanted to feel loved. by one glance and he didnt bring that to the table anymore. i wish we could of remained friends cause i do love him, but i no longer love him with the passion i had befor, dont treat your exs bad, cause it does hurt them. josh dosent know that it hurt me when he said those awfull things, and it still hurts i dont get a "im sorry" back, still i have no bad words to say, we fought a lot but we loved hard. maybe things could of been different. but then where would i be? still miserable. he was a great boyfriend and fiance and he showed me how to love. but he had to set me free and allow me to explore it further.