You know what? You need to get over it. No, it's not normal of you. It's weird in this day and age. We are moving past this as a society, and you are on the wrong side of history.
He has a boyfriend, and I doubt you're his type anyway, so why are you all edgy? How is it different from working with a hetero woman who is also completely uninterested in you? Someone can be interested in sex with a specific, individual member of your gender without having any interest whatsoever in you, in case you hadn't noticed that from all the women who are not leaving their husbands and boyfriends to bed you.
As for talking about his boyfriend, if it makes you that creeped out, then I guess you could look like an ass and ask him not to talk about someone who is a part of his life -- but that also means you don't get to talk about your girlfriend (assuming you have a girlfriend).
Maybe it is a little uncomfortable for you at first. I get that. Sometimes it's uncomfortable to be around anyone who isn't like the people we already know. But that's your problem, not his. Why should he have to change his perfectly normal behavior to suit your weird ideation?
You wrote that you "thought he was OK." You were right; he is perfectly okay. You're the one who isn't being okay with this.
Is it normal to hate working with a gay guy?
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You know what? You need to get over it. No, it's not normal of you. It's weird in this day and age. We are moving past this as a society, and you are on the wrong side of history.
He has a boyfriend, and I doubt you're his type anyway, so why are you all edgy? How is it different from working with a hetero woman who is also completely uninterested in you? Someone can be interested in sex with a specific, individual member of your gender without having any interest whatsoever in you, in case you hadn't noticed that from all the women who are not leaving their husbands and boyfriends to bed you.
As for talking about his boyfriend, if it makes you that creeped out, then I guess you could look like an ass and ask him not to talk about someone who is a part of his life -- but that also means you don't get to talk about your girlfriend (assuming you have a girlfriend).
Maybe it is a little uncomfortable for you at first. I get that. Sometimes it's uncomfortable to be around anyone who isn't like the people we already know. But that's your problem, not his. Why should he have to change his perfectly normal behavior to suit your weird ideation?
You wrote that you "thought he was OK." You were right; he is perfectly okay. You're the one who isn't being okay with this.