Is it normal to hate with a passion pregnant women and children

after a miscarriage? I dont know why I suddenly cant stand to be around them but I just get so irritated when I am.

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  • I'm sorry for your loss. I think you can't stand them because you wanted a baby, and it's not fair that someone else didn't have that miscarriage. So when you see pregnant women, and when you see children it reminds you of that. Totally understandable. Good luck to you, soon you'll have a baby of your own.

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  • understandable....and probably normal....probably not right lol

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  • Wow that guy has some nerve calling you an asshole you're obviously hurting over losing your baby so sorry for your loss went through a period like that myself I didn't get pregnant but there was a time when I wanted a baby so bad where we were trying to conceive when I was out and about going on with my daily life if I saw a baby especially a newborn I couldn't bear to look at it I was jealous but I certainly didn't "hate children with a passion" I couldn't bear to look because I wanted one of my own so badly it actually hurt to look at someone else's baby I'm over the envy now I sincerely hope your feelings of hate will go away sooner rather than later as the pain festering inside you is not good for you

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  • Been there, done that. As misplaced as your resentment is, it's so normal. You've been through one of the hardest moments you'll face... If steering clear of pregnant women and babies helps, do it. A month after I miscarried, my friend handed me her friend's 3 month old baby. It ripped every wound right open again.

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  • Awww I'm sorry to hear about your miscarriage. I would be upset to. Just adopt or try again. Praying is the key to it answer you seek

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  • That's so sad! I too am sorry for your loss. I understand that another baby won't replace the one you miscarried, but I hope you at least try. I'm sure he or she would be loved no matter what. Good luck if you do try again.

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  • ^totally agree
    Sorry for your loss:(

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  • Yes it is!! pregnant women are fucking gross
    they only give pain to the earth, when theres kids that already are born and needs parents and dont have any type of love or food
    but they think their desires to get filled with cum make them special and unique

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  • I'm so very sorry for your loss but it is definitely not normal to hate pregnant women and children simply because you lost a child. I do understand that a miscarriage is a difficult, but you might need to talk to someone about this anger.

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  • I'm very sorry about your loss. I had a miscarriage years ago with serious complications for several months post miscarriage and I know how emotionally painful and scary it is. I can understand why you would feel uncomfortable being around pregnant women after a miscarriage, but "hating pregnant women and children with a passion" is not very nice at all. Hate is a very strong word. It's not their fault that you lost your pregnancy and negative emotions are not good for you either. Concentrate on getting better and I promise you that you will really get through this. And yes, stay away from pregnant women and baby showers until you feel a bit recovered emotionally. I know how hard it is. Hang in there, you will be ok. Bless you and your little angel.

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  • I dont blame you at all. One day, you will be bless again, but maybe this wasn't your time to be pregnant. Sorry for your loss.

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  • ^ yes.

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  • i woundnt say its normal but it is certainly explainable.

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  • Yeah, me too? Lol

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  • Are you perhaps the biggest dickhead who ever lived?

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    • Nah, based on what happened I think it is normal. Just sounds like jealousy? I'm assuming you were really looking forward to it? I think it would pass with time or you getting pregnant again.

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