Ay yo, this is totally normal. "I thought I told you to clean the faucet" for example, is her letting you know straight up that you didn't do what you were asked and she is annoyed. In that situation you can either apologise and do it, or if you had a legitimate reason for not doing so, you would have the opportunity to argue your point. Adding the laugh at the end turns her annoyance into passive aggression. You know she's pissed off but because of that laugh you're not allowed to respond in a way that resolves the situation properly. You both know she actually cares about the issue but because of that laugh, it automatically invalidates your response whether you wanted to apologise or argue. The only thing you can do is clean the faucet, but you will resent the fact that you weren't given the opportunity to respond properly, or you can not clean it and it will likely result in a fight of some kind.
Is it normal to hate this that little laugh to prove a point?
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Ay yo, this is totally normal. "I thought I told you to clean the faucet" for example, is her letting you know straight up that you didn't do what you were asked and she is annoyed. In that situation you can either apologise and do it, or if you had a legitimate reason for not doing so, you would have the opportunity to argue your point. Adding the laugh at the end turns her annoyance into passive aggression. You know she's pissed off but because of that laugh you're not allowed to respond in a way that resolves the situation properly. You both know she actually cares about the issue but because of that laugh, it automatically invalidates your response whether you wanted to apologise or argue. The only thing you can do is clean the faucet, but you will resent the fact that you weren't given the opportunity to respond properly, or you can not clean it and it will likely result in a fight of some kind.
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Of course arguing about a faucet is absurd, I was just using the example.