Is it normal to hate the way I was raised?

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  • If you want to learn, you'll change eventually. Your parents may not have been able to say no, but the world will. Can I have time off from to work? NO! I just finished college and I really want this job! Go to the interview, do I have this job? NO! Bought a brand new phone on a contract. Can I break this contract? NO! Do you want a waranty? NO! My phone broke, can I get a new one? NO! Heyo, you/your girlfriend is pregnant. Are you ready for a baby? No. To bad!! Doesn't matter what you're parents say, you'll get beaten down with the rest of us when you have to pay bills and shit just keeps going wrong. Luck to you!!

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    • Hello, I feel exactly how you feel! Only those of us who were treated with such unfairness!!!! Only understand , I am the youngest of 5 , I know I was an unwanted child because my mother told me everyday of my childhood , I have a brother 1 year older and a sister 3 years older AND THEY WERE TREATED WITH LOVE , caring , do things for them ( I always just got the left overs in everything) clothes, Love,
      When it came to quality time with children one on one, I witnessed my mom only giving that to my older siblings , I never had support as a child or an adult the way they were. I was never asked where is your report card? Never signed up in sports ( but u betcha sister and bro every year) they even went to private schools and I went to public ( was told only enough funds to send two)
      So yes I understand exactly what u mean and it does affect our future ( example wasn't pushed to go to college always was told not enough money left after having to put my brother and sister in college before me) its easy for the last 2 people who made negative comments because they did not feel the same pain as u and me! It's a whole lot easier to get thru life when u have parents backing u up PERIOD!!
      Feel ur pain LOL TO YOU AND YES WE DO HAVE TO WORK HARDER IN LIFE , but why when we should of been treated equal!! As it is parents DUTY to do so! Shame on people if they do not treat there children the same or they only should of had one child!!!

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