Is it normal to hate the thought of my boyfriend masturbating?

its is normal for u to feel this way, a lot of girls have told me this, including my own gf of 2 years, so I stopped, it created serious problems between us, a guy cannot just not masterbate, for me its apart of my sexual experssion and identity, I understand thay prolly like u, it made her feel bad about herself, and that maybe I found interest in others (porn) bothered her a lot, stopping masterbation made my sex drive plummet from daily to 2 to 3 times a month, we finally had a discussion, we talked about both our feelings, and our sex life is returning to normal, its about understanding, its not fair for you to put restrictions on what he does with his body! however your feelings totally need to be addressed, you guys have to talk, its can be uncomfortable but so can the inevitable wedge that will come from you telling him what he can and cannot do with his body, I've been there on the other side, post like yours have saved my relationship, jus remember your feelings are important and so are his, good luck :)