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I just cant see the need in a man needing or even wanting to masturbate when they have a sexual partner! Why do men do this? It makes me feel so utterly jealous just the thought of it, makes me feel cheated on! Do any other girls feel this way? :(
Women, you can't possibly give him as much sex as he really need in order to stop masturbating. If you do then he won't masturbate at all.
Try this:
Morning glory blow job, just before he go to work! Welcome home blow job or a quickie. Afternoon sex. And in the night sex or a job(hand or blow).
Do him like that for a week. And then tell us if he masturbated at all. :)
you're lucky he doesn't cheat on you!he's just masturbating!what's wrong with that?
This is quite normal. Even when I was married I used to masturbate quite often. Every man needs variety and if he constantly has sex with only 1 parter, he soon gets bored. You should be happy it's just masturbation he engages in, and not live sex with other women.
I know what you mean. But be happy about him not cheating. Maybe u should tell him how u feel?
Well, do you live with him? If not then you need to get over the fact he masturbates. Since you are not with him 24/7 he is going to get horny and fap. I'm sure it would be different if you lived with him.
Oh. Hm. Well then tell him to knock that shit off and get you involved with getting him off.
its is normal for u to feel this way, a lot of girls have told me this, including my own gf of 2 years, so I stopped, it created serious problems between us, a guy cannot just not masterbate, for me its apart of my sexual experssion and identity, I understand thay prolly like u, it made her feel bad about herself, and that maybe I found interest in others (porn) bothered her a lot, stopping masterbation made my sex drive plummet from daily to 2 to 3 times a month, we finally had a discussion, we talked about both our feelings, and our sex life is returning to normal, its about understanding, its not fair for you to put restrictions on what he does with his body! however your feelings totally need to be addressed, you guys have to talk, its can be uncomfortable but so can the inevitable wedge that will come from you telling him what he can and cannot do with his body, I've been there on the other side, post like yours have saved my relationship, jus remember your feelings are important and so are his, good luck :)
Well dont watch him doing it. It is that simple. If you are so jealous that you can not even think of him touching his own privates you have some problems. He can not cheat with himself. He can not help he has a dick. That is not his fault and if he removed it would you still complain since he can not pleasure you? Would you rather him titty fuck another woman?
my boyfriend does it. he says it's more a boredom thing though. i don't care. it's actually kinda hot.