It is normal and definitely not healthy. I'm not a shrink or even have a background in psychology but I do know that everyone puts themselves down by comparing themselves to others.
I do all the time but in reality we're all harbouring many insecurities. Ilt comes down to what's important to you in your life, maybe you really want to do well in your career or maybe to you family and friends and having a good time is more important.
Those are just two examples but there are many paths in life one can take to feel good about oneself and it's important not to compare yourself too much to other people, because everybody always puts their best self forward so we don't see what they feel inside we don't see their perceived 'problems' and you can prove quite easily that others do this by looking at yourself because you also do the same thing, you're posting about an insecurity anonymously on the internet because people aren't open about these things and that's totally fine but it's important to know that the Beautiful lady on the executive board doesn't have everything figured out.
I hope this helped even if only a little. One last thing I'd really recommend though, is that you listen to a few Alan Watts lectures, I guarantee you'll get a lot from them you can find them on YouTube pick a title that relates to you and listen you won't be disappointed they really help me when I'm feeling down
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It is normal and definitely not healthy. I'm not a shrink or even have a background in psychology but I do know that everyone puts themselves down by comparing themselves to others.
I do all the time but in reality we're all harbouring many insecurities. Ilt comes down to what's important to you in your life, maybe you really want to do well in your career or maybe to you family and friends and having a good time is more important.
Those are just two examples but there are many paths in life one can take to feel good about oneself and it's important not to compare yourself too much to other people, because everybody always puts their best self forward so we don't see what they feel inside we don't see their perceived 'problems' and you can prove quite easily that others do this by looking at yourself because you also do the same thing, you're posting about an insecurity anonymously on the internet because people aren't open about these things and that's totally fine but it's important to know that the Beautiful lady on the executive board doesn't have everything figured out.
I hope this helped even if only a little. One last thing I'd really recommend though, is that you listen to a few Alan Watts lectures, I guarantee you'll get a lot from them you can find them on YouTube pick a title that relates to you and listen you won't be disappointed they really help me when I'm feeling down