Is it normal to hate myself so much?

is it normal to hate myself? i feel like im the source of everyones depression, sadness and anger. when something bad happens to someone close to me, i feel like its my fault. im doing my best to please everyone around me, but when i fail i feel like total shit. ive been isolating myself as best as i can by spending all of my time at home in my room, i wanna make sure im not a burden to any other human. im not good at school, i cant get good grades no matter how hard i try. i hate myself so much, im such a worthless and useless piece of crap. i dont know what is happening to me, and why. is this normal? feel free to leave negative comments cause i probably deserve it.

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64% Normal
Based on 56 votes (36 yes)
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  • moose89

    Listen to me: you are not worthless, you are not a piece of shit, you are a human being who makes mistakes and who needs love just like everyone else. There are people out there in this world who think you are great. There are people out there who love you other than you family. I'm sure you have some sort of talent or something that you do well. If not, then think of something that you like to do. Do you like music? Try writing some songs. Do you like to be outdoors? Go for a bike ride or a run... do something physical to get all this anger out of you. No one wants you to feel unhappy. Sure, you mess up sometimes, but everyone does. I mess up all the time. But it is no reason to hate yourself. You are loved, and I think you're a good-hearted person for wanting to make others feel happy. Now it's your turn to make yourself feel happy.

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  • Faceless

    Try not to be an asshole to people. IF you are one. And its easy to tell by anyone you know, if they at least called you an asshole once in your life and meant it. Everyone hates themselves every once in a while. Just work on what you hate about your self and complete the necessary steps it takes to positively change it for the better of yourself and those around you.

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  • scumfuck

    is this a woman's thing ? I really can't relate at all.

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  • Dadabayjuly17

    Im so sorry because that means you have very low self esteem. Ant to have low self esteem in this world means that you wont make it. What you need to realize is that most people are insecure, but stronger people say ," I need to ttreat myself respectfully, and hold my head up, not letting people see that im insecure becasue that'll make me look and feel worse." People will use u if they see that your a weak person, then youll really be sad, because that feeling sucks.. GET THOSE THOUGHTS OUTTA YOUR HEAD AND STOP TRYING TO PLEASE PEOPLE DOING THAT IS PONTLESS WHO CARES ABOUT THAT, THEYRE NOBODIES!!!!!!

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  • DominiqueG

    It's normal but not true

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  • DamonGenade

    I know how you feel my life has been getting really shit lately. I cant seem to do anything right. Im losing friends. Ive given up on trying to get with the only girl i love. I feel like shit and try to isolate my self as best i can. My grades at school are shit. I dont know what to do with my life.

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