Is it normal to hate my whole family

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I just wish I could move out and live on my own, my mum is so controlling and only takes herself into consideration. Honestly don't even talk to my dad for a week until he says something horrible to me, he hates me i hate him too (he's also bipolar, threw a knife at my mum once). I have two older sisters, they barley exist in my life, one of them is always hiding away in her room and the oldest is always somewhere else in the world. I just don't like family in general, my step uncle also molested me when i was 8 or 9 sleeping, idk if he raped me or something. the only family I feel i can talk to is my ex step dad. so yea is this normal to hate them or is it just me hating nearly everyone

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Based on 9 votes (6 yes)
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  • Crunchy_Crust
    5 years ago

    I hate most of them too. You can't choose your family members but friends and they are the only ones you can turn for support. My grandmother is a pure narcissistic bitch. I hate her. It's not normal to get abused by uncle so I would like you to work hard because that family sounds like pure shit and you have to move out once you are in the age to do so.

    Best of luck for future.

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  • cinderfloof
    5 years ago

    It's normal. Don't feel a need to convince yourself that you should love them just because they're your blood relations. They've abused you, and its perfectly normal to move out as soon as you can and refuse to look back. Please just take care of yourself in the meantime. Make sure to do well in school so that you can get good scholarships and move far away without their financial support or exercise so that the military is a viable option. If you feel that this isn't a good environment, talk to your counselors for support and they'll remove you from that environment.

    If you're older, find a friend you can live with or perhaps enlist. Whatever you choose, I wish you the best of luck.

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