Is it normal to hate my sister
is it normal to actually hate my older sister? shes heaps mean to us and we dont like her..... normal??? like she doesnt even talk to me.. ever
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is it normal to actually hate my older sister? shes heaps mean to us and we dont like her..... normal??? like she doesnt even talk to me.. ever
Your almost in the same situation as I am except I'm the big sis. I behave the same way with her as your bis sister treats u. But I don't like her at all. She thinks to much of herself, sometimes adds comments that make ppl feel crap about themselves. I know she makes me feel like a retarded loser. Our mom always tries to find the right school for her sometimes not thinking about me. Even if it means moving to another city. And she's the lil fave and I'm usually the bad one. I just hate her... I think hating your sister can be normal if she makes u feel bad and miserable about yourself. Some ppl don't like their mom or dad or even their friends. It's not who they are it's what their like that decides if u like them.
In my situation I am the older sister strongly disliking my younger sister. For years I hated the person that she was because I believed that she wasn't being true to herself and she was always causing drama around me. I finally told her how I felt and then I didn't really care anymore about my beef and now our relationship is much better. It's a hard thing being a sister, in my case I was being over protective of her and the wellbeing I had created for her. Though I looked at it as me wanting the best for her, I neglected to understand that she is her own person and that it's okay for her to do what she will and that I can be okay with that. I struggled for many years but then I found it in myself to be at peace. Hope this helps:)
Well, if it's normal for you it's normal for me. I wouldn't know of having a distant relationship with my brother because we're pretty close. But I think it's only because we live in such a small house. I think you should try to create somewhat of a bond. Hating your sibling(s) on occasion is normal, but hating them 24/7 could become a problem. But if you and your sister are okay with your relationship as it is, then alright.
U don't hate her u Still love her but sometimes she gets in ur nerves and u think u hate her