Is it normal to hate my parents

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i was born with one testies, my parents neglected this problem and didn't visit a doctor or consulted any one. When i was 9 yrs, i don't know what happend and they started seeking medical advice " a physician told me nothing to be done at 9yrs ", after that they decided to do surgery for me " also at surgery nothing had been done " they anesthetized me, and stayed in theater for 6 hrs for nothing, now i'm 24 and i'm suffering cuz i've gynecomastia and i consulted a surgeon who told me i need to remove the testies not in the scrotum cuz it has 50% risk of developing cancer, and i hate them yeah i hate them. Is hating your parents normal?

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  • babe7575
    13 years ago | pl

    im sorry.

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  • CDmale4fem
    7 years ago | pl

    Its been said that some if us want what we dont have. I am a male crossdresser since age 12-13. I am in 59's now. I really would have LOVED to have had my own male breasts. It would be nice to have real breasts to put into my bras. Also then I wouldnt feel like everyones starung or they all know that Im a guy wearung a bra or lingerie. Then I could have real good reason to go get fitted by professionel for bra's.

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  • memvc
    10 years ago | pl

    It's normal to be angry, but it's not their fault. They probably were not neglecting you, but accepting you, and not being doctors did not know what to do, or not to do.

    Also educate yourself as much as possible! Whether you would have had this taken care of as a baby or not, if you are born with an undescended testicle, you have about a 20 to 40 times greater risk for developing testicular cancer. Treatment now will just make it easier to detect cancer. There are different ways of dealing with this, so get second and even third opinions.

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  • darkmagneto
    12 years ago | pl

    Your doctors sound retarded. Your testicle should have nothing to do with gynecomastia removal. Just find a plastic surgeon who'll be willing to do breast reduction.

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  • Comm0nSense
    13 years ago | pl

    dude maybe in your case I don't know. but tough luck man I feel for you. live big brotha

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    Maybe they didn't think this would end up like this. I guess they wanted to help you when you got older but shouldn't you be mad at the doc instead for not doing anything when you were 9? Maybe it was their fault for waiting till you got older but what if they went when you were younger and the doc would of said the same thing.. Nothing more your parents could of done.

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    • shushu
      13 years ago | pl

      >Momonator, i'm a physician, and i knew already that there is nothing to be done at 9 yrs, so i can't be mad at the doctor, they neglected my problem, and neglected me, god revenge them for me i'm having much troubles but not everything can be mentioned here
      thanks for help

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