Is it normal to hate my mother

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I hate my mother. I cant even fake it. She bullies me and expects our relationship to be perfect. she wants us to be best friends like in the movies but, how can i when she makes me feel less, ugly, worthless, and fat. I mean i am fat but she should be telling me no your not you are beautiful but that is not the case here. She always tries to make me go on diets and buys pills from downtown LA that say they will make me skinny. However, they do not do shit. In fact i actually lost weight once 20 pounds in like 3 months and all she said was "that is it now you have to loose more". She seems to care more about my weight than me. Sorry this is a long rant and oh I am 17 so I really cant move out yet.

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  • radar
    6 years ago

    Yes, your feelings are completely normal and logical. She didn't give you a reason to love her.

    She is probably a very hurt person and doesn't know how to be the kind of parent that creates a healthy relationship with their child.

    It's not on you.

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  • weallhatesuckylife
    6 years ago

    well,pardon my talking but she is a very hurtful person.She doesn't have to judge your appearance,you are you.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    6 years ago

    If she's acting like that, I can see why you don't like her.

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  • fruityheaven97
    6 years ago

    Parents crave perfection too much when it comes to their children. They raise us a certain way, and yours has clearly raised you to be self conscious about your body when she should be telling you how proud she is of you. It reminds me of the glass half empty, glass half full concept. And your mum is looking at a half empty glass (telling you to loose more weight instead of praising you for the weight you have lost). You need to have a serious conversation with your mum about how she's making you feel.

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  • ChrissySnow
    6 years ago

    Yes, I'm a lot like you. I both love (because she is my mother) and hate my mother (because she is mean to me). My husband and my father claim we are a lot alike but I don't see it. She is too mean for me

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    She sounds awful, I'm sorry for the way she is treating you!

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