Your mum has done everything likely to make you hate & despise her, and to still resent her so much is entirely normal BUT not affecting her, only you.
I reckon you need some help with this & as soon as you can get it: you could try Al-Anon for family/friends of alcoholics or better still but usually harder to find, Adult Children of Alcoholics.
She is really sick, you know, and although no-one forced her to start drinking no-one would choose to be an alcoholic, by the time people acknowledge they are it's very hard for them to change, a lot easier to just have one more drink. Sad to say, you can't change her but you can, with help, change how you're reacting to her. I know, I've done it and it's worth it: you're worth it
Is it normal to hate my mother?
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Your mum has done everything likely to make you hate & despise her, and to still resent her so much is entirely normal BUT not affecting her, only you.
I reckon you need some help with this & as soon as you can get it: you could try Al-Anon for family/friends of alcoholics or better still but usually harder to find, Adult Children of Alcoholics.
She is really sick, you know, and although no-one forced her to start drinking no-one would choose to be an alcoholic, by the time people acknowledge they are it's very hard for them to change, a lot easier to just have one more drink. Sad to say, you can't change her but you can, with help, change how you're reacting to her. I know, I've done it and it's worth it: you're worth it