Is it normal to hate my girlfriend's hobby?

This sounds more like an addiction than a hobby.

I could never be with someone who just wants to play video games everyday for six hours. It's such a turnoff for me that words cannot adequetly express how much I would not want a be with such a person.

Dump her and move on

It sounds like she is addicted to this game and I don’t think it’s a coincidence that lockdown started around the time she got back into it.

I would have a talk with her, tell her you understand that gaming is important to her but you feel like you are left to look after the house by yourself and that she’s choosing video games over you. Suggest a daily schedule for the both of you with time slots of when you will do housework and start and end times to her gaming sessions.

It's okay if it's once in a while but if she's literally sitting at the computer playing games for 6 hours several days a week for months...that's an addiction and it's not healthy for a relationship. You should have a serious talk with her and tell her how it makes you feel and see if she will understand

Yeah, there is playing videogames for fun and addiction...

I like to get into the character of a game I'm playing and play in the style that character would go through the story, but I do not have much time to do so. Usually a few hours in the weekend and that's about it. If my girlfriend is working on Saturday, I could stretch my game time to about 6 hours, but I still gotta do stuff...

And even if I could spend 12 hours a day gaming, I don't think I would do it. Games get boring the more you play them, so playing something bit by bit gives you far more enjoyment (in my mind) and you pay attention to details.

But yeah, not normal dude... Have a serious talk with your girlfriend about being a proper functioning adult. We all gotta be one at some point in our lives and postponing it only makes things worse.

All you can really do is give her an ultimatum. Say it's me, us, our relationship what have you or the dumb game. If she chooses the game at least you know where you stand and can go find someone else. Honestly, she sounds like an addictive personality anyway. Good luck.

To fart about in a fantasy land 6+ hours a day is funny farm path!

Your girlfriend sounds more like a male virgin than a girlfriend but ok

Yes. I hate how obsessed with my lover's car obsession is. I know this is more than a hobby but it's in the same spirit as this post

Too much of anything is bad. A hobby is just a hobby, shouldn't take up all of your time because then it's an addiction if you can't stop. You should talk to her about it if it's getting in the way of the relationship and if you can't work it out it's probably for the best to end things.
Maybe then she'll realize.

Yes, it sounds like an addiction and obsession.

I have a friend who is into roleplaying as well, but he will ignore my texts for days over both this and video games, while he can't put his phone down while we hang out because he's afraid those people online he's never met will be upset with him, which I think sucks that he cares more about respecting their inability to realize that people have lives outside of a phone or computer than me.

He's absolutely obsessed with and addicted to video games as well. Luckily no mental breakdowns when asked to put them down for awhile, but he acts lost without them and plays them all day and night, and has let go of responsibilities over them.

Is it the activity you hate or the amount of time she spends on it? If its the activity, why? Let the woman have her hobbies. Why should you get to dictate how she has fun?

If the issue is the amount of time she spends on it, which I think is what you're trying to say... Tell her. I definitely don't recommend giving her an "it or me" ultimatum, but let her know you want more time together, etc.

I wouldn't mind as long as she pulled her weight with the house chores and put out!

You got MTGA, dude? Also, what kind of stuff does she roleplay on gta?

Is there any way you can work out a compromise? She plays a certain amount and makes time just for you? There's gotta be a fine line somewhere. If she's unwilling to make that effort I think it's time to reevaluate your relationship.

Idk what online role play is.

She is who she is. You can ask her to maybe not be so active with it. Is she 7 days a week with it or ? Love her as she is or move on ?

The entire last paragraph pretty much sums up the fact that she's a lost cause. It's time to put your feelings of love aside and break up. People like her who can't even function like an actual adult only get worse as time goes on. You're going to wind up miserable if you stay.