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My girlfriend is pregnant with my first born but I found out the day before she was pregnant she had been talking to several other guys. Just talking according to her but the messages are gone and she had hung out with one and they made out. She claims it was forced but he says she wanted it and talked of it and that she has sent him nudes. What do I do? I want the baby to have a dad in its life all the time.
Well, if some other guy knocked her up, you can rest assured he ain't gonna want anything to do with the baby.
You can adopt it if you are THAT concerned but once she goes to be with some other douchbag boyfriend, you might end up having to pay for the kid, even though it ain;t yours.
If it turns out to not be yours, think long and hard if you really want to stay with her and risk being responsible for paying for a kid you did not father.
This is a tough one. Im in a different but similar boat dude. Right and wrong are just words to me right now. But what matters is what we do. No matter the outcome, most likely youll look back on this in a decade and probably still feel things about it,but youll be okay. We're due for a tragedy about every 10 years .
Insist that they show you the messages and nudes so you can see what really happened. If she wants to stay together you deserve to know.
You don’t mention any doubt that you’re the father but if she’s sending other guys naked pictures I think there’s a chance it could be another guy.
Best of luck whatever happens.