Is it normal to hate my father?

I'm 17 years old and I'm normal guy, I have friends, I like girls and like computer hardware and video games, but my father don't just dislike computers, he hates computers, maybe not particularly them but he hates when I'm in front of a computer. But thats not a real problem, real problem is that he thinks that I'm too skinny (I'm 184cm and 70kg I know I need a few kilos) but and he forces me to work out every day(at home). That's not problem to me physically(If its normal work out) but mentally because when I work out he is throwing comments like "Don't do that that way, do it this way" And he is saying that on every exercise I do. I have been in gym for 2 months and I learned how to do exercise the right way so i can do it home, but he thinks that he knows better anyway, btw he's not bodybuilder and he's really pushing all my limits both mental and physical..He even forces me to drink raw eggs mixed with milk and I almost threw up, not because it was disgusting but because it was 3dl of milk and 2 eggs and I have eat a lot before that.Sometimes i workout till 0:00, and I need to wake up for school in 7 o'clock. When I stop during the trening just to drink water he's just like "Why did you stopped??". He tells me to eat before and after the trening but I just can't eat that much. I'm not ugly or that much skinny, I know i need a few kilos of muscles (and I have worked out before he started all this) but is all of this really needed? I think I'm going to psychically snap one day. Is it normal to feel this way?

Is It Normal?
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  • I thought that my father was a tyrant!he sounds as if he`s using you to make up for imagined deficits in his masculinity!

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  • You need to set your limits with your Dad. If you don't feel like drinking raw eggs tell him. If you want to avoid conflict try telling him to back off a little in a joking manner. IDK I can tell my parents pretty much anything and sometimes we disagree on things but its never a big deal. Don't let your Dad treat you like a pushover and respectfully let him be aware of your limits.

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    • I'll consider that. Thank you for kind comment!

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  • Tell him not to keep doing that to you! Tell him you appreciate that he is trying to help you but that too much of a good thing becomes a bad thing!

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  • I don't know why he's embarressed of me? I'm pretty good looking and I'm in the age when girls are crazy about me..And he's not a guy with a lot of muscles, just normal guy, actually he sad that when he was my age he was same weight as me..I just think he wants me to gain muscles in 1 month, but in bodybuilding gaining muscles is going slow and easy.

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    • well i must be wrong and i am happy about that, he sees potential then, just seems a bit harsh

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  • you will bulk up when you are older, what is wrong with the twit, i suspect he is embarressed sorry to say

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