It would help if we knew the reason she gave for breaking up.This is significant because if it was specific to some problem she had with you, or maybe some differences you had which kept on recurring, then you're going to have to accept that her decision was based on genuine concerns.
If this rings true then the fact you saw her with another guy so soon afterwards is, if not irrelevant then certainly academic. Yes, he may be the reason she decided to finish with you sooner than she might otherwise have done. But if you're able to take a cold, hard look and see some justification for her decision then your main cause for complaint amounts to insensitivity on her part for flaunting her new relationship on Facebook where, I assume, she'd know you were bound to see it.
On the other hand, if things were OK between you prior to the split and she gave you no just cause other than to say it's over, then it's a fairly safe bet, painful as it is, that her head has been turned by the new guy.
You don't say whether it's just your pride that's hurt but if you were really into this girl then you deserve our sympathy. The heartbreak, the rejection, the fact she's chosen someone else in preference to you - this can be hard to take. The only comfort we can give you is to point out that your predicament is being played out times without number every single day all over the world. 'NotAgain' says, good for her 'cos life's too short - which is OK, until you're the one being dumped and then it's not so good for you.
Only you can say if there's any chance of winning her back, or whether she's worth it, even if there is. Either way, take whatever comfort you can from knowing that many have been exactly where you are now and the vast majority survive and move on to find someone who makes them happier than any of those lost loves ever could.
IIN to hate my ex girlfriend for moving on so fast?
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It would help if we knew the reason she gave for breaking up.This is significant because if it was specific to some problem she had with you, or maybe some differences you had which kept on recurring, then you're going to have to accept that her decision was based on genuine concerns.
If this rings true then the fact you saw her with another guy so soon afterwards is, if not irrelevant then certainly academic. Yes, he may be the reason she decided to finish with you sooner than she might otherwise have done. But if you're able to take a cold, hard look and see some justification for her decision then your main cause for complaint amounts to insensitivity on her part for flaunting her new relationship on Facebook where, I assume, she'd know you were bound to see it.
On the other hand, if things were OK between you prior to the split and she gave you no just cause other than to say it's over, then it's a fairly safe bet, painful as it is, that her head has been turned by the new guy.
You don't say whether it's just your pride that's hurt but if you were really into this girl then you deserve our sympathy. The heartbreak, the rejection, the fact she's chosen someone else in preference to you - this can be hard to take. The only comfort we can give you is to point out that your predicament is being played out times without number every single day all over the world. 'NotAgain' says, good for her 'cos life's too short - which is OK, until you're the one being dumped and then it's not so good for you.
Only you can say if there's any chance of winning her back, or whether she's worth it, even if there is. Either way, take whatever comfort you can from knowing that many have been exactly where you are now and the vast majority survive and move on to find someone who makes them happier than any of those lost loves ever could.