Is it normal to hate my brothers girlfriend

Well there is so much I can say but I will try and cram it all in. First of all my brother has been with this girl since i was 13/14 he got her pregnant just before they left school so they now have a 5 year old son and a 1 year old daughter. I'd say the problems started after she had the first child. She stopped coming to our house, used to stare at us when we came over to hers to see the little boy, not leave us alone with him etc. Shes always had an issue with my dad, i think this is because she hasnt had one of her own but anyways...

Now things are worse id say, we have never ever been allowed to take him out anywhere alone, shes made an issue of clothes we buy the kids, having pictures of them, makes excuses to not come to family occasions. Speaks nice to our faces but says personal things about us to other people.

Is there something I'm missing here??? Is this acceptable?

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  • Nokiot9

    She sounds kind of over protective. Tell ur brother to set her straight. They' are his kids too.

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  • soccer2

    Um I think it's sort of normal that she is protective of her kid. But she shouldn't talk about u behind your back. Talk to ur bro maybe. Or talk to her

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    • Shifter

      But she isnt normal. Why should she need to protect her children from us? It isnt like shes like this with everyone, just our family and we have done NOTHING to influence this behaviour.

      More has happened since this post and it has helped me see that she is just a vindictive little cow and im more then normal to dislike her!

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  • skunk

    damn that sucks!!!! I hate my brother's gf as well. After reading this I fear even more that he is going to marry and have children with her. Bleghk then I will be stuck with her forever. He can do sooooo much better - he just doesn't even get it.

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    • skunk

      btw- I wish I could slap your brother's gf for you. If it's any consolation.

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    • Shifter

      Haha i wish i could slap her too but i dont think that would make things any better for me!

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