Is it normal to hate my brother?

I HATE MY BROTHER! He has non-stop made my life miserable since day one. He is two years older than me. When i was a baby he would pretend to play with me then slap me. He also peed on me. As i grew up he was a complete annoying jerk to me, always teasing me, making fun of me, and lowering my self esteem. Not to mention he is a pathological lair. I don't think he knows when hes lying anymore. He drives my family insane. Two years ago i was in 8th grade and i became friends with a group of girls, i loved them we had so much fun. When we got to high school the "leader of the group" started hooking up with him behind my back. The whole year was crazy for me, and there are many crazy stories i could tell. To sum it up he ruined my friendship with all of these girls and never even realized or cared about my feelings. He lied to them saying i was the bad one making up stories about me because he didn't like me hanging out with his girlfriend. To this day they continue to date. I see them together in the hallway,it makes me so mad. He once told me that if a guy punched me in the face he wouldn't defend me and laugh but if he punched his girlfriend he would kill the guy.(I am serious when i say he meant every word.)He is a selfish obnoxious person and i cant deal with him anymore. He makes my mother crazy, and there is never a night with out screaming between him and my parents. He also teases and screams at my 5 yr. old sister. He lost all of his friends for this ugly girl and is going no where. He has horrible grades and no respect for anyone. He wont be going away to college so i will have to deal with him for 2 more years of my life. I hate him so much!!!!

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  • Carolinne

    Thanks echoes, someone had to say that ;)

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  • Echoes

    You made up the story and commented on it, not once but TWICE!

    Your stupidity is of commercial quantities, but don't export that we have enough stupid people on this planet.

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  • koifish

    That's fucked up. There's obviously something wrong with him that must be hidden real deep. Just know there's nothing wrong with you and your mom and he's the one who is fucked up. He must be a lonely man..

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  • kachine

    and my brother does the same things they are so fucked up

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  • kachine

    i hate my brother too i wish i could push him down the fucking stairs he is such a disrespectful asshole to my family and i, and he uses his size to push me around and he always says he will keep my secrets then tells them and i want to believe that he will keep them because i want us to be close but he always breaks my trust. i thought that it was only because we were teenagers before is why we fought but we are both adults now and nothing has changed.

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  • superva

    He is definitely fucked up, but you have to be tough and don´t pay attention to him. He will lead a life of being and ass and then collect what he grew: no friends, ugly girlfriend, no family, no study. Everyone makes their own destiny, you should care for your own and just disregard him as much as you can. You will see, one day, when years pass by, he will come to you an apologize for his sucky immature attitude, cause right now he is too stupid to see it. Good luck, be tough and life your own life away from him.

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  • imkookoo

    Sibling rivalry is common, but only up to a point. Your brother sounds like a piece of work. If you never have had any good times with him at all, then it's ok to hate him. Just don't let that hate make you do anything regretful. It is not worth it to let anyone ruin your life.

    Do well in school, and go to college is my advice. You'll meet so many more quality people in college because people are generally more mature. They say college is where you meet your friends for life. But anyway, even if you don't go to college, the point is you should take control of what you can to make yourself successful in your own life. Once you do that, it won't matter what your brother does to you, will it? He can live his life and you could live yours. Maybe one of these days your brother will come around. But until then, don't let your bro ruin your life.

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  • Fatoosha

    Carzy brother

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  • Don't worry i hate my brother too!

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  • Try talking to your brother, tell him how you feel about the situation. Maybe he will understand and feel guilty.
    Or try talking to a parent about him get advice on what you should do.

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