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I have low self esteem and absolutely no confidence when it comes to my body. I have wobbly bits and I also love older men! Do u think the next older guy that comes my way will dislike my body or not want me if he saw me naked? Don't get me wrong I am not ugly it's just I have wobbly bits. Please I need advice regarding this matter. Thanks x
Not very eloquent, but still precise and generally true in a lot of cases. No matter WHAT your body looks like, a man while find you far more attractive if you are confident in who you are than if you aren't.
Following up with similar blunt, straight-forwardness:
A fat ugly chick who knows she's an awesome person will get a good man long before a beautiful, fit woman who thinks she's garbage does.
If a guy truly loves you, then I'm sure he'll look past you're body. For that matter I think you're being a little too imaginative about your body. I don't know what it is you're referring to by "wobbly bits" but you seem too focused on that feature. Try focusing on the features that you like most about yourself. Everybody has a flaw but that doesn't mean they won't find love. I don't think you should let your body dictate your love life. Someday you'll meet the right guy and to him your body will be perfect.