Is it normal to hate loveless sex?

That's something most girls would love about a guy, but most guys aren't like that. Maybe not common, but it's good, & it's normal, (:

I think it's normal. My girlfriend and I won't be having sex for awhile (she's young) and no matter how much I want it (I'm older) I could never even think of having sex with some one else

i agree im a guy to (20), i dont see the point in the idea

I'm a 19 year old dude and I agree with ya

17, I agree with you.

I'm an 18-year-old dude and I agree with you 100%.

i used to do that shit all the time. one night stands. till i met this one girl. and i mean i just looked at her different. and after we started having sex it was the best ever. it was godly. well she left me cause i started partying and after she left i tried to have one night stands and couldnt do it. everythime i was about to go in. her face would come to my mind. eventualy i got her back and we getting married. but it really is different between meaningless sex, and then sex that means something

this is a great thing to feel and im the same way thugh i am a girl so its somewhat expected. its better for you mentally and phisically becuase your not being reckless,getting STDS or getting girls pregnant not to mention it makes you feel better and dont belive what that guy above me said about it becoming a chore it doesnt have to be true alot of people turn it into that but i have been with the same guy for 5 years now and it hasnt gotten stale or old for us at all as long as both people work at the sex in the relationship its all abut giving and recieving and theres lots of activities like role playing,SMbondage,toys,kama sutra positions lots of things that can be tried out later on in life when 2 people really trust each other.

Maybe it's fine when it's meaningless for both partners, but it sure is shitty when it's meaningless for only one of the two having it.

It's unusual in a guy your ages, but certainly not a bad thing! Once you have experienced sex in the context of love, it is very difficult to go back to meaningless sex, as you know it can be so much more :)

the fact that you're a guy and feel that way is amazing. i am a girl that has stupidly slept with a few friends. for them it was just empty sex and thats all they ever wanted or intended. but for me it was much more. i absolutely hate empty sex. unfortunately i got caught in the heat of the moment but when it's all said and done i feel shattered. i think it's amazing that there are still real men out there with actual respect and emotions and feelings. thank you.

I agree. I kind of find it disgusting when I imagin myself having sex with someone who I do not have any connection with, or even just a friend. There just has to be something there fore sex to matter or it just feels like you are giving your body away.

That's my opinion, it would be nice if everyone thought similar to us though.

It is very normal for a woman. There is nothing creepier that having meaningless sex. It's depressing.

Haha. I am a girl, and I agree with you !

I feel tha same somewat
I'm a guy

I agree with you and I'm a guy.

I agree it's much better with that all encompassing, soul binding, connection u get when you make love to someone versus just fucking them. Sex without love is great, it's just not AS good.

if its great sex then who cares

I feel the same way...don't fuck me make love to me.damn

The more importance and pressure you put on the activity, the harder it will be for your standards to be met.
Sex always involves an emotional connection (however obscure or slight). There's an obvious physical connection that goes without saying but a really strong love connection could be considered a spiritual experience for some and once they've had that experience it goes beyond "I love you" and into "life is worth living", "I feel so refreshed", "I'm seeing through better eyes" etc.
It can shift your whole paradigm and the loss of that connection can be equally devastating. You don't have to be religious or spiritual to relate to what I'm saying. Suffice to say it's quite normal and understandable but the times are quickly changing. I've found it extremely difficult to find a woman who wants a relationship and not just a fling.

I felt the same way in my teens but my attitudes changed sometime in my early 20s. Sex and love are controlled by two different regions of the brain, which might be why you have asexual people who still feel romantic affection. I think the attitude most people have towards sex is primarily due to cultural and religious stigmatization, these influences are so strong we don't even realize when our natural urges have been suppressed so we genuinely believe that the two (sex and love) are related when there's no evidence to support this.

I love sex whether I love them or not, I'm a girl