I have discussed both of these issues with him, though I have talked about not liking kissing much less because I am just realizing it may be a bigger issue.
His hygiene I have talked to him about several times and he might improve for a day, might go brush his teeth then, but either doesn't care or isn't able to. I just can't get over the original sight of his mouth. It was disgusting and I am worried I will never be able to get over it even though he's switched a few meds and its a bit better overall.
I still find myself staring at his mouth in horror most times. He's a pretty oblivious guy when it comes to hygiene in general, blames it on a disorder, but I figured if he loved me or really wanted me to try kissing he would make an actual effort. And yes, I have said this to him. He claims he's changed, but still ugh. I mean one night he fell asleep with fucking chocolate in his mouth and woke up with it all over his teeth. Like, A LOT of chocolate.
IIN to hate kissing?
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I have discussed both of these issues with him, though I have talked about not liking kissing much less because I am just realizing it may be a bigger issue.
His hygiene I have talked to him about several times and he might improve for a day, might go brush his teeth then, but either doesn't care or isn't able to. I just can't get over the original sight of his mouth. It was disgusting and I am worried I will never be able to get over it even though he's switched a few meds and its a bit better overall.
I still find myself staring at his mouth in horror most times. He's a pretty oblivious guy when it comes to hygiene in general, blames it on a disorder, but I figured if he loved me or really wanted me to try kissing he would make an actual effort. And yes, I have said this to him. He claims he's changed, but still ugh. I mean one night he fell asleep with fucking chocolate in his mouth and woke up with it all over his teeth. Like, A LOT of chocolate.
End of rant.