Eight years is a long freaking time. I can't help but wonder if there's more to this story. Was there perhaps some awful incident between the two of you in the beginning?
Well, they're white and rich and I'm Hispanic and my mother is unfortunately poor. So we started off on the wrong foot there. I've been nothing but courteous. I like to keep more good behavior in my 'bank' than bad behavior, so no I have not addressed any of their behavior in a negative way. I've attempted to address this ordeal through talking and right off the bat I was hit with complete defensiveness. His parents were this way once upon a time, but they have since warmed up to me, his sister...not so much.
No, no awful incidents, I have never gotten their son into trouble, I don't engage in destructive behavior, his grades have never plummeted while being with me. I just honestly don't understand.
There's been plenty of times where I'm so hurt by things said or done that I leave work crying my eyes out. I honestly think she persist messing with me simply because I am being courteous to her. I'm just as confused as you are.
She sounds like a codependent control freak. I don't know her but I get the impression she wants to control other people a lot. It sounds like you're keeping it together pretty good though. I think she'd be a lot happier if she could accept she's powerless over her brother's relationship with you. It sounds like you're pretty smart though in understanding this is her issue. I'd be willing to suspect she's probably not a very happy person which tends to be the case with mean people. I wish you all the best.
Is it normal to hate her this much?
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Eight years is a long freaking time. I can't help but wonder if there's more to this story. Was there perhaps some awful incident between the two of you in the beginning?
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Well, they're white and rich and I'm Hispanic and my mother is unfortunately poor. So we started off on the wrong foot there. I've been nothing but courteous. I like to keep more good behavior in my 'bank' than bad behavior, so no I have not addressed any of their behavior in a negative way. I've attempted to address this ordeal through talking and right off the bat I was hit with complete defensiveness. His parents were this way once upon a time, but they have since warmed up to me, his sister...not so much.
No, no awful incidents, I have never gotten their son into trouble, I don't engage in destructive behavior, his grades have never plummeted while being with me. I just honestly don't understand.
There's been plenty of times where I'm so hurt by things said or done that I leave work crying my eyes out. I honestly think she persist messing with me simply because I am being courteous to her. I'm just as confused as you are.
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She sounds like a codependent control freak. I don't know her but I get the impression she wants to control other people a lot. It sounds like you're keeping it together pretty good though. I think she'd be a lot happier if she could accept she's powerless over her brother's relationship with you. It sounds like you're pretty smart though in understanding this is her issue. I'd be willing to suspect she's probably not a very happy person which tends to be the case with mean people. I wish you all the best.