Your advice is touching. Even though I have not experienced the OP's situation myself, two of your statements are definitely worth further contemplation:
You stated it was wrong to put a person in the position of taking responsibility and then blaming them if it turns out badly.
You said "The real courage lies in letting people have expectations of you and being able to meet those expectations without ruining your day to day life"
These are fabulous nuggets of wisdom. I think perhaps I have known these concepts already but never articulated it so well as you have here.
Is it normal to hate her for what she has done to me?
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Brilliant response. I agree.
Your advice is touching. Even though I have not experienced the OP's situation myself, two of your statements are definitely worth further contemplation:
You stated it was wrong to put a person in the position of taking responsibility and then blaming them if it turns out badly.
You said "The real courage lies in letting people have expectations of you and being able to meet those expectations without ruining your day to day life"
These are fabulous nuggets of wisdom. I think perhaps I have known these concepts already but never articulated it so well as you have here.