I know when girls turn a guy down they don't always try to be perfectly clear as to why and what they are feeling. They are usually very vague and that leaves room for guys like you and me to think, "oh I'm so ugly, or dumb, or lame, or everything. GAH!"
Don't trick yourself into thinking like that because it's not the truth. Turning you down on your looks DOES NOT MEAN you are in any way ugly. Think of all the times your friends said a girl was really hot and you didn't agree. Looks are just a matter of preference. She had a different image of you in her mind, probably one that fit her preference, and then through those pictures realized that you weren't the one to stay with. Her talking to you in the first place and having sex is proof enough that you are attractive. Just not her type though. And that happens all the time. You can't blame her for having a certain type she wants to be with.
Now her leading things along and saying everything was ok when it wasn't and going back and forth with you is a little ridiculous. Nobody likes that feeling. However that happens too. We are human and thus indecisive and unsure about what we want and what we should do.
Don't let the way girls go about dating make you lose confidence in yourself. You are obviously perfectly capable of meeting girls. It will just take a little more looking.
Is it normal to hate her for what she has done to me?
← View full post
I know when girls turn a guy down they don't always try to be perfectly clear as to why and what they are feeling. They are usually very vague and that leaves room for guys like you and me to think, "oh I'm so ugly, or dumb, or lame, or everything. GAH!"
Don't trick yourself into thinking like that because it's not the truth. Turning you down on your looks DOES NOT MEAN you are in any way ugly. Think of all the times your friends said a girl was really hot and you didn't agree. Looks are just a matter of preference. She had a different image of you in her mind, probably one that fit her preference, and then through those pictures realized that you weren't the one to stay with. Her talking to you in the first place and having sex is proof enough that you are attractive. Just not her type though. And that happens all the time. You can't blame her for having a certain type she wants to be with.
Now her leading things along and saying everything was ok when it wasn't and going back and forth with you is a little ridiculous. Nobody likes that feeling. However that happens too. We are human and thus indecisive and unsure about what we want and what we should do.
Don't let the way girls go about dating make you lose confidence in yourself. You are obviously perfectly capable of meeting girls. It will just take a little more looking.