I think it's probably their attempt to relieve some of your stress by suggesting ultimately it's down to fate, but I agree, it's totally useless in a practical sense. You just have to be more overt with those kind of people I guess - explicitly ask them for some practical advice and help in discussing the advantages and disadvantages.
Or don't ask 'those people', ask someone who will give you straight, functional assistance without the airy, ambiguous spiritualism.
Well I did "I said that does not help me now" and they said "Everyone has something waiting for them. You just have to wait and find it. Only fate can tell". I have nothing against people being spiritual but this kind of stuff is such a peeve.
Is it normal to hate getting useless answer when asking for advice?
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I think it's probably their attempt to relieve some of your stress by suggesting ultimately it's down to fate, but I agree, it's totally useless in a practical sense. You just have to be more overt with those kind of people I guess - explicitly ask them for some practical advice and help in discussing the advantages and disadvantages.
Or don't ask 'those people', ask someone who will give you straight, functional assistance without the airy, ambiguous spiritualism.
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Well I did "I said that does not help me now" and they said "Everyone has something waiting for them. You just have to wait and find it. Only fate can tell". I have nothing against people being spiritual but this kind of stuff is such a peeve.
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Luckily for me I don't know many people who say stuff like that at all, if any.
Like I said, perhaps you just need to ask different people. People who have their feet on the ground rather than their heads in the clouds.