Is it normal to hate friends

i dislike being around most people i know, i often resent going out with friends and i come home feeling like shit. i also feel neglected and lonely when im not invited out to events or dont go to events ive been invited to, i just cant seem to win. is this normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • Its alright. I hated my "friends" also.

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  • It's impossible to "hate friends". Friends are the people you love and who love you back. I'm guessing you simply don't love those people you're calling 'friends' nor feel loved by them.

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  • Perhaps you don't really like the people you call your friends but you're just going through the motions because you don't want to feel like an outcast. I had a few friends in college who I would hang out with just for the sake of fitting in, I didn't really feel like we had much in common, and because they went to the same highschool together, they were much closer. May be you're just not making meaningful connections with your friends - perhaps try asking them about what's going on in their lives and share more of your feelings with them.

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  • They're not friends if you hate them, find some friends you like

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  • You're friends can probably sense your negative energy when you're around them. People try to stay away from people like that. Just try being positive, even if you have to fake it at first, could solve your issue in a hurry. After that you'll feel better about things and not have to fake your positive feelings.

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    • i am very 'positive' around them and im usually the most energetic adventurous one, but the problem lies more around that i hate to be alone but i also hate being around people

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      • If you hate being around people, it probably shows. Don't underestimate people's ability to sense things.

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