The problem is that people don't take marriage seriously any more. Many people just marry someone so that they can fuck for an extended period of time (long-term fuck-buddy relationship) without ever really caring for them.
Do you not realise that sex is boring once you're legally married? Ask married pals how often they get it - I bet it's less than before they got married!
I'm married over 20 years but friends say we are like 2 single people in the same house. We don't believe we own each other and neither of us wears a wedding ring. We stay together coz we laugh every day and are best friends.
My best advice is not to get married until you've been dating at least 6 years - so that you're not getting married in a period of lust. By then you should know if you really like the person, not just love them!!
Is it normal to hate/fear the thought of ever being married
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The problem is that people don't take marriage seriously any more. Many people just marry someone so that they can fuck for an extended period of time (long-term fuck-buddy relationship) without ever really caring for them.
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Do you not realise that sex is boring once you're legally married? Ask married pals how often they get it - I bet it's less than before they got married!
I'm married over 20 years but friends say we are like 2 single people in the same house. We don't believe we own each other and neither of us wears a wedding ring. We stay together coz we laugh every day and are best friends.
My best advice is not to get married until you've been dating at least 6 years - so that you're not getting married in a period of lust. By then you should know if you really like the person, not just love them!!