marriage is wonderful as long as you marry the right person. a lot of people rush into marriage and have kids and then they realise they arent right for each other. i understand you hating marriage because your parents got a divorce but you cant judge that from other peoples experiences. if you set yourself up for a fall, then you will never be happy in any marriage. try to clean the slate and think positive and not rush into it. you dont have to follow in your parents footsteps.
also most people fight over the most petty crap in relationships which causes a lot of break ups so if you find someone who is not petty then chances are the relationship will last but if there is nagging and distrust and bickering then it will never work. there is more to life and a happy marriage than fighting over who did the dishes last or who took the garbage out last. these things need to get done regardless and if you cant be adult and mature enough to do these things then maybe make out a roster. but fighting just makes it worse and its a huge waste of time because it still has to get done.
so good luck to you and i hope you find happiness and a life time of love.
Is it normal to hate/fear the thought of ever being married
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marriage is wonderful as long as you marry the right person. a lot of people rush into marriage and have kids and then they realise they arent right for each other. i understand you hating marriage because your parents got a divorce but you cant judge that from other peoples experiences. if you set yourself up for a fall, then you will never be happy in any marriage. try to clean the slate and think positive and not rush into it. you dont have to follow in your parents footsteps.
also most people fight over the most petty crap in relationships which causes a lot of break ups so if you find someone who is not petty then chances are the relationship will last but if there is nagging and distrust and bickering then it will never work. there is more to life and a happy marriage than fighting over who did the dishes last or who took the garbage out last. these things need to get done regardless and if you cant be adult and mature enough to do these things then maybe make out a roster. but fighting just makes it worse and its a huge waste of time because it still has to get done.
so good luck to you and i hope you find happiness and a life time of love.