Is it normal to hate everyone but feel empty inside?

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I can't remember when this started, but ever since it started, i've always hated everyone i have ever met, and even most people i haven't met. I have fantasies of brutaly murdering everyone i see to the point of satisfaction, with different ways to kill each one. Along with that I always seem to be depressed and very sad and angry with myself, to the point of near suicide. I saw other posts on this site similar to this, but i still wasn't sure if i was okay.... Im worried that this may completely destroy - or end my life, so please help!

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  • Danelleeee
    13 years ago

    hi, i am a nurse. and i automatically dislike everyone i meet. EXCEPT those who deserve tender loving care. if someone can fend for themselves, i see them as automatically with a huge ego, and unnecessary to my life. i dislike the majority of people, because the majority of people are cruel. i dont have murderous thoughts, because someone is someone to everyone. let me explain that:

    that annoying, FUCKING person that you cannot stand, with their hair and their shit and the things they say.... thats someones daughter/son/brother/sister. someone in the world has unconditional love for that person. that old ass man/ woman who wont shut the fuck up and the only thing out of their mouth is a complaint, thats someones mom or dad. and like most people, we love our parents.

    i would be so hurt... knowing someone made fun of my poor dad. he is an easy target for people with a quick temper. he is slow moving and cranky, an old sickly man. a grumpy old mechanic who bickers at teenagers, that man gave me life, and i love him.

    its hard not to be selfish and hate everyone, but you have to force yourself to be in their shoes. everyone, no matter how selfish or shallow they appear to be, has feelings. everyone cries, loves, and trusts.

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    • Trismegistus
      13 years ago

      You are fired.

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      • Dybolical
        12 years ago

        Couldn't have said it better myself, lol..

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago

    Just don't act on those impulses.

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  • ishitpandas
    12 years ago

    I feel the same way

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  • sundown
    13 years ago

    I feel the opposite most of the time. I feel like everyone hates me. I am treated very badly by most family members. I know someone suggested you talk to a friend. As you said you hate people. The fact that you have both homicidal and sucicidel feelings and thoughts are a big warning. You should force yourself to talk to a professional. You could get to a point that you take action on one or both of those thoughts.
    I think you may hate yourself more then you hate others. Could something have happened to you when you were younger, or now? Are you treated badly? When a person hates themselves and everyone else that is an almost obvious danger sign. I would hate to see you continuing to waste your life. We aren't born with these feelings. Something makes them happen.
    You can have a better life. I used to always think everyone hates me. Now it's just some people. I got/get angry sometimes still at people. But I know not everyone spends all day thinking about how much they hate me. Everyone has issues even if we can't see it. Your not the only one.
    Take care k?

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  • bdzz123
    14 years ago

    I had the same problem...I hate meeting ppl, talking to them, and just plain old being around them...I have even had suicidal thoughts...and for awhile I was like a spiraling depression bomb just waiting to blow...the only thing that helped me was thinking about the few ppl I cared about...and the few that cared about me...it kept me goin till I could free myself of my depression...now lifes good :)

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  • bronte_91
    14 years ago

    I think that you really need talk to someone i.e. a close friend or a family member. It is important that you do this because no one wants to see you harm yourself in any way. Once you have opened up to someone you will probably feel relief and you can then decide wether you need to talk to a professional about how you are feeling. Things will be ok and you will feel happy again if you just reach out and get some help

    Please take care! :)

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