Is it normal to hate every thing about my self?

I cant stand the way i look,act, or dress.. i cant lleven look at my self in the mirror because i think i look ugly.. IIN?

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Based on 85 votes (49 yes)
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  • kelso

    It's normal to be a little insecure, but having trouble looking in the mirror is in a whole different league. You're probably gorgeous too, what a shame.

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    • akirathefurry

      My bf says that i a, but i seem to have a hard time beiliveing him..

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  • For the longest time I was the same way. I still am sometimes, but I've been trying to just accept the way I look..and as for personality I just try to be the person I want to be and not who I'm expected to be. As long as I know I'm living my way I know I'm happy. Hope this helps. :)

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    • akirathefurry

      Yes ty ^^

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  • greenhouse

    If there's something you don't like about yourself, change it. If you can't change it, accept it. A little philosophy I apply to my life

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  • sleepingbeauty

    If you can buy clothes from a normal high street store, then your figure is fine. If you have a boyfriend then your looks are fine, if you've kept him then your personality is fine. So my advice is to give yourself a reality check and find out why you are so negative about yourself,

    I would suggest it's more about self confidence. If that's the case, then do something to build that up like classes, charity work, a parachute jump...anything really that makes you feel good.

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    • akirathefurry

      Lol sorry parachute jumping, but ty for the advice

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      • sleepingbeauty

        lol....well sometimes it takes something extreme to drive through the apathy and self loathing ;)

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        • akirathefurry

          XD

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  • deb

    :(

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  • noatomsk

    Why not change who you are?

    Why not try to be everything you want to be and everything you think is best?

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    • akirathefurry

      Ive tryed to change but when i did that i turned into a royal bitch :x

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  • Sabby

    Join the club

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  • Well, it could be worse. Believe me, on here, if you like everything about yourself, you get people attacking you.

    This is the type of treatment you get on here:

    You don't like everything about yourself = People treat you nicely.

    You do like everything about yourself = Constant ridicule and hate towards you.

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    • akirathefurry

      Thats basicy the way people are treated any were, they feel simpathetic but then when some ones more confident they are.. how do i put this.. jealous maybe? Idk how to explain it

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      • Energy

        Yes, they're jealous of how confident some people, are so they act like dicks.

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  • Saggists_DntWorry1204

    You say you hate the way you act, dress, and look? You can change that - even the looks if you're desperate enough.

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  • cookiesaregreat

    This sounds a lot like me, sadly enough..

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