Is it normal to hate every girl just because of bad past.

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I am 19 years old.. I have been called cute and handsome by girls sometimes but whenever i enter or try to enter a relationship something bad happens. So recently i met a nice girl in my neighborhood and started chatting with her daily. I told her one day that i love her. She said she loves me as a friend but may become my gf someday. So i showered her with all my love.. Yesterday she deactivated all her social media accounts and went below the radar.. Now i feel like i wasted my love and i hate everyone now.. Is it normal?

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago | pl

    How much of a "bad past" can you possibly have at 19? One girl possibly exploited you or changed her mind, probably because you came on too strong, and now you hate all girls?

    Settle down and stop over dramatising what happened.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    7 years ago | pl

    No get over it.

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  • Sophie12345
    7 years ago | pl

    I think it's pretty normal to feel anger about girls. Your past is hard to remember. Maybe your past was very hard and sad, I don't really know that. And you can use that feelings for someone who doesn't deserve it. Believe it, I think it's normal. When you are angry you do and say things that you don't wanted to do and say.

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  • Rusty-Rider
    7 years ago | pl

    It's enough to make a guy become a sheep rancher.

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  • CreamPuffs
    7 years ago | pl

    Well, you see, some girls are cunts.

    Many of them are not however. Assuming that they all are is incredibly sexist. You are like the make version of the feminazi.

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  • Shackleford96
    7 years ago | pl

    "She said she loves me as a friend but may become my gf someday"

    ^liar

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  • Brett_Keane
    7 years ago | pl

    They'll do that sometimes. If she WAS using you, she probably isn't that good of a person. Probably not good enough to have a loving relationship with

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  • Brett_Keane
    7 years ago | pl

    Be cautious, be slow, grow on her slowly, don't rush, and don't take things too personal situation

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    • Spartan_boy
      7 years ago | pl

      But i feel like she was just using me all along tp boost her ego by giving false hopes. I tried contacting her but she doesn't look much willing

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