Is it normal to hate driving?

My sister was the same way, my parents were terrible impatient teachers. But eventually she learned how to drive ( I believe she got help from older friends that wouldn't create such a hostile learning environment) and it became one of the things she does to relieve stress, to go cruising around aimlessly. It's just something that takes time to learn and after enough practice, you'll get the muscle memory and speed perception to be able to effortlessly drive around.
I got into my first accident misjudging when I could make a left turn at a light, but eventually I picked up on how long it takes for cars to reach you based on the speed limit and such, and what to look out for and how to react, and I can just put myself on autopilot and drive without even looking where I'm going. Especially when I'm high, it's quite remarkable. If I start over thinking things, I get nervous and think I'm going to crash. But if I just flip on the auto pilot switch, I just look at the road and without even thinking my hands move the steering wheel exactly where it needs to be.
But idk, girls are different. I was scared for my life every time I rode with my ex. She never checked her blind spot once when changing lanes, just looks in the mirror. I pointed out that it only takes that one person in your blind spot to ruin your life, but she's like, nah, too much trouble and there's never anyone in my blind spot anyway.