Is it normal to hate children??
I hate children so much. Them whineing at the store, pain in the ass to take care of, smell bad, dirty, wannabe people.
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I hate children so much. Them whineing at the store, pain in the ass to take care of, smell bad, dirty, wannabe people.
I don't hate babies or children except when they screaming their lungs out when they cry. Even a couple of minutes of listening to it irritates me.
I feel like grabbing by the neck and screaming "Shut up!".
God knows how mothers can put up with a screaming brat 24 hours a day. I'm glad I'm never having any brats of my own.
I strongly dislike children too. Mainly, 0-4yrs, and 6-15yrs. Most teenagers I'm very unimpressed with too.
I have quite few maternal tendencies, my poor boyfriend knows that, aha. I understand people fight with: but they're such joys, think of the amazing things you'll miss! You know.. first words, teaching to read and bike and early Christmases would be great, I don't doubt. The other 294 days, I would be regretting my decision, so I won't bring myself to that point. Birth would be especially difficult: I wouldn't give away my comfort (delivery, months of foot/back pain, diet change) for something purple, screaming, mucusy and likely hairy...Babies look scarily 'zombie'like at first. Grabbing, twisting, screaming...
I'm lucky to have a boyfriend who's identical in tolerance.
So yep, perfectly normal. Smile when you hear kids whiny, cause you know it isn't yours. :)
(I regret having been a difficult [though I wasn't really] kid, but I never asked to be born. I wouldn't consider myself a 'gift' by any means, surely if I were I would pop out babies like my mum, and not end the family name?)
All right, all you people judging, it's up to OP. She has every right to feel that way! I love my kids but, not everyone wants kids! My cousin never had kids because she doesn't like them! She's almost 50 and doesn't regret a thing! She and her husband have had a great life together doing what they want when they want! Kids aren't for everyone! Better to be honest then resentful with a houseful of kids!
I was never a 'child', so-to-speak. I was always polite and respectful to my mother, and I never threw a tantrum whenever I didn't get something I wanted. I was also smart; I understood what sharing was, I understood why adults told 'white lies', I understood things that children don't usually deal with until they're teenagers.
The one thing that has illuded me for my entire life is why parents love their children. I don't get it.
And I hate children, too. I am not psychologically unballanced because of this. It's an opinion, and there's nothing wrong with that.