Is it normal to hate children??

I hate children so much. Them whineing at the store, pain in the ass to take care of, smell bad, dirty, wannabe people.

Is It Normal?
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  • I don't like children either. I never plan on having any.

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  • Some say the only kids you can ever love are your own.

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  • I don't plan on having any either lol yes they r so annoying with their whining and stuff i don't hate them it's just sometimes they can be really spoiled and bratty and annoying ugh lol

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  • I don't hate babies or children except when they screaming their lungs out when they cry. Even a couple of minutes of listening to it irritates me.
    I feel like grabbing by the neck and screaming "Shut up!".
    God knows how mothers can put up with a screaming brat 24 hours a day. I'm glad I'm never having any brats of my own.

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  • I strongly dislike children too. Mainly, 0-4yrs, and 6-15yrs. Most teenagers I'm very unimpressed with too.
    I have quite few maternal tendencies, my poor boyfriend knows that, aha. I understand people fight with: but they're such joys, think of the amazing things you'll miss! You know.. first words, teaching to read and bike and early Christmases would be great, I don't doubt. The other 294 days, I would be regretting my decision, so I won't bring myself to that point. Birth would be especially difficult: I wouldn't give away my comfort (delivery, months of foot/back pain, diet change) for something purple, screaming, mucusy and likely hairy...Babies look scarily 'zombie'like at first. Grabbing, twisting, screaming...
    I'm lucky to have a boyfriend who's identical in tolerance.

    So yep, perfectly normal. Smile when you hear kids whiny, cause you know it isn't yours. :)
    (I regret having been a difficult [though I wasn't really] kid, but I never asked to be born. I wouldn't consider myself a 'gift' by any means, surely if I were I would pop out babies like my mum, and not end the family name?)

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  • Mothers must be the most patient people in the world. Especially if they have multiple kids...
    I'm wondering if I'll ever develop that kind of patience and tolerance. It's a sign of maturity that eludes me for sure.

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  • I wouldn't mind raising a little "Charlie", but, the Veruca Salt type of child is not for me.

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  • All right, all you people judging, it's up to OP. She has every right to feel that way! I love my kids but, not everyone wants kids! My cousin never had kids because she doesn't like them! She's almost 50 and doesn't regret a thing! She and her husband have had a great life together doing what they want when they want! Kids aren't for everyone! Better to be honest then resentful with a houseful of kids!

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  • Kids are great. It's unfortunately mainly upbringing that turns them into whining spoilt little brats. Mine are perfect, naturally ;)

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  • It's ok to dislike, as long as you don't harm them or treat them bad when you have to be around them. Remember, you were a bad ass child once before, and you probably have relatives with kids. You don't want jerks treating them badly, or harming them.

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  • I was never a 'child', so-to-speak. I was always polite and respectful to my mother, and I never threw a tantrum whenever I didn't get something I wanted. I was also smart; I understood what sharing was, I understood why adults told 'white lies', I understood things that children don't usually deal with until they're teenagers.

    The one thing that has illuded me for my entire life is why parents love their children. I don't get it.

    And I hate children, too. I am not psychologically unballanced because of this. It's an opinion, and there's nothing wrong with that.

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  • i am sure your parents hated you too... with an attitude like that, they probably still do.

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  • Weren't you one of them at some point in the past?

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  • Being annoyed by children is normal....

    Hating children=psychologically disturbed

    I suppose your next post will be about how you hate puppies and kittens....Lol

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  • Well it's a good thing YOU were never a child!! Get a life dumbasses!

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  • If a kid is whining and annoying, there's a pretty good chance that their mother/caretaker is whiny and annoying.
    Children are a reflection of the environment they are raised in.

    And just remember, you were a kid once too. And I'll bet you didn't make it easy for your family.

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  • I'm with what Wreckd and elijah said. And not all kids are like that anyway. Besides, weren't you a kid at one point in your life?

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  • Then don't have kids. I'm sure they hate you too.

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