There is a reason that she changed. You indicated that some bad things happened to her. As a friend, you have two choices: stand by your friends even if they are having a tough time, or decide that your friends are dragging you down with them to the point that you are changing into somebody you don't wish to become. I generally choose the former, but there are times I have not found it possible to stand by friends if things have changed so much and they are not willing or able to be open with me about it. In that case, sorry to say, but it might be best to cut your losses and move on.
"Friends forever" is the ideal, and certainly something I try to live my life by, but it is not always possible.
Is it normal to hate bestfriend who has a drastic change in identity?
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There is a reason that she changed. You indicated that some bad things happened to her. As a friend, you have two choices: stand by your friends even if they are having a tough time, or decide that your friends are dragging you down with them to the point that you are changing into somebody you don't wish to become. I generally choose the former, but there are times I have not found it possible to stand by friends if things have changed so much and they are not willing or able to be open with me about it. In that case, sorry to say, but it might be best to cut your losses and move on.
"Friends forever" is the ideal, and certainly something I try to live my life by, but it is not always possible.