Is it normal to hate being asian?

Ok so I'm Half Japanese and Half Italian and every time people find out I'm Japanese the first question they ask is "What are your grades?!?" It drives me CRAZY and I normally just end up cussing the person out in Japanese *Just say it in a nice voice and they won't know the differentce ;)* not only that but I play lots of sports like soccer, volleyball, softball, ect Ok when you think volleyvall you'd think I'm a tall person right? WRONG! I'm like 5'2 but I can just jump high or whatever...but kinda sucks because I'm captain of the team because I went to volleyball camp before and learned a lot of stuff before everyone else, well anyways every time I walk out people are like "Psst why's that short Asian girl captain?" I think I got so mad at someone before I threw my shoe at him.

Is It Normal?
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  • Didn't you just post something about hating when people think you're smart too? You threw your shoe at someone? Cuss people out? I really think you need to just get over it. It's pretty immature to let something like this get to you so much that you resort to physical attacks. It's really not as big a deal as you make it out to be.

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    • I was thinking the same thing. There is nothing wrong with being an asian girl. As long as you keep yourself up, you should always have great skin and will be truly beautiful. (Don't believe me, look at a Mexican girl over 30.) There is nothing wrong with hating your heritage.

      You don't HAVE to be captain of your team, just step down but with all of these activities you are doing, I bet you will have a good life. THink of it how you will be better than those rejects later in your life.

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      • Oh yeah right Bud, agree a bit with someone - Jen of all people who thinks you are one of the crudest dumb-assholes to walk the planet, and I agree - and turn it into a racist slur against hispanics to make it look like you and your pathetic views have support.

        You are such a pathetic bigot.

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      • god damn it bud
        wtf is this supposed to mean?

        "(Don't believe me, look at a Mexican girl over 30.)"

        you are so incredibly rude it makes me wan to pull my hair out.
        mexican women can be beautiful over the age of 30, whats wrong with you?
        youre the ugliest son of a bitch ive seen in a long time, maybe ever, so i dont think you have the right to make comments like that.

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  • i think if someone said 'why is that asian girl a captain'' you must have raised your head in pride (lost that moment).. you cant help it that you are an asian so what can you do is love to be this way and make others admire being Asian..

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  • Wow, the amount I care is so low... Seriously, just suck it up and calm down. My sister is a red head and if she hears anyone say "ginger" around her even if its the spice. She'll see red and beat the shit out of them. Its crazy.

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  • Mexican chicks over 30?!
    Look at Eva longoria or JLO (well I think she's Cuban or some shit..whatevs) those bitches are over 30 and still hella sexy.

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  • Ok so you can't live up to your Japanese half....so tell them you are half Philippine. They won't ask you about your grades then.

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    • Yet another bigot... what is this ... a meeting of the KKK junior league?

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  • Shuggy... Anyways why do you hate being Asians? The world loves Asians. I wish I was Asian. I would be a lot more popular. My school was racist to non Asians. Would have given a lot to be in your shoes.

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  • What do Latinas over 30 have to do with this its totally off topic and who said Asians were tall or athletic the steroid ropes are
    Small penis
    Not athletic
    Smart
    Nagy parents that don't let them have fun and exc.
    Those a mostly false and all parents are Nagy anyways a lot of people are ignorant and you should not care about what they think or say just remark something back like a stereotype about there race/nationality so they can know how it feels to judge them by there race

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  • I never hate being an asian but i hate some racist ppl.

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  • There are many Asians who are not very educated. Many places in the tropical Asia do not have good education systems. In fact, they do not need one as they live in abundant areas.

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  • Is ur lower half Asian? That's hot.

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  • You don't hate being Asian, you hate the way people treat you because of it.

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  • I'm half Japanese and half I-don't-even-know-what, and I think you should calm down. Cussing them out? Throwing shoes? I don't think they mean any harm. Just chill out and everything will be okay.

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  • LOL! First things first, you need to calm down and not think of violent thoughts. They are not good for your health, didn't you know that?

    You can never control what other people say about you. I started playing rugby recently and I'm a really small ethnic chinese person and people ask me a lot "aren't you a little small for rugby?" If anything, I have great admiration for you that you continued the way you did... and you're captain too! You weren't captain for no reason, you were there because of your abilities!

    Enjoy volleyball, my friend, and just ignore what people say. Life is too short for hate, just look back and retain just the positive memories :-)

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  • chill the fuck out ya crazy jap.

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    • I don't think your breath smells any different, racist. Your head smells of shit - as in shit head.

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  • look on the brightside! if you were a male asian.. you would have a small penis hahah asians make ma laugh! LONG GENERAL TSOS CHICKEN!!!!!

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    • Hey you and Bud should team up as bigots - you can't even spell "you're". Dickwad.

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      • Im a bigot? lol who the fuck are you! You sound like you should be in the sitcom.. "Its all in the family" you fuckin retard, damn i hate brits! o and what exactly did i spell wrong?

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