Is it normal to hate almost everything about my mom?

I love my mom to death, but every thing about her i hate, its almost as if she set all my pet peeves. She procrastinates, she's a hypocrit, she doesnt hold true to promises, she overthinks everything and she always has to be right even if she has to lie to be right. I hate it..... Does anyone else feel like this toward their perent??

Is It Normal?
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  • Well people always tell me "oh your a teenager, you don't hate your mom, it's just hormones, you'll grow out of it" but wtff no! I absolutly hate my mom, it's ridiculous :|

    It seems like nobody understands me, and cannot see my actual ANGER and HATE for her.

    Now I understand what you are feeling, but my mom does exactly the same, and really, I'll be honest with you. I don't love her at all. She's ruined my life, and you know what, we aren't even related! I was adopted by her and she has never shown me any slight affection for me..

    But yeah, I'm sorry about what your going through, try and sit down and talk to her or something?

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    • i feel so sorry for you!

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    • If she hasnt sexually assaulted you, then grow up you ungrateful little ****. Things could be MUCH worse. And stop pretending like you're the only one that's ever been adopted.

      If she has assaulted you, then sorry, I hope things get better.

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  • I fucked your mom nine months before you were born and she was a good screw.

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  • Normal. Once you grow up you start looking at your parents as adults. I love my mom but also hate some qualities. Like how she never learns and is full of excuses.

    You're an adult or almost an adult. Your parents are normally examples, and you might be unsatisfied with the example she's giving. And i think you just realized that you don't want to be anything like your mother.

    Sometimes I want to tell my mother that i think i'm a better woman than her, but i don't because that's hurtful and i do love her. I mean she did give birth to me and kissed my booboos

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  • I absolutely feel the same way. If I argue with my mother no matter what I'll lose because even if I'm right she'll say something like "you always have to have the last word". Anything I've tried to just chat with her about she'll pass judgement over like I still need her approval. Any success I have she'll claim was thanks to her. Any advice I took she'll claim she gave me, swear she rewrites history to suit herself.

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  • Shes my real mother and i know it could be worse, i just hate the way she handles everything

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  • 100%

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  • I hate my dad. He holds up all those qualities except for procrastinating. And a lot of other horrid things, but I dont want to vent anymore

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