Is it normal to hardly ever have sex with your boyfriend

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I have a boyfriend. He is 8 years younger than me. He calls me his cougar. I'm not overweight or unattractive nor stupid.
He is overweight, but a very kind and wonderful friend in every other way, except that we do not have sex very often, hardly ever. Some reasons are not his fault. Being my age now I've slowed down sexually. But I think about it a lot. Maybe because I don't have sex too often. I feel that I'm missing out, but he insists that it's not a big deal. We've discussed it, done some counseling to the point where neither of us wants to bring it up in fear that we will separate. Can a relationship be healthy without sex?

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  • peterr
    9 years ago | pl

    I will eat you out any time you want!

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  • danoo
    13 years ago | pl

    I love my gf and have not had sex for months now. But a lot has happened. Looking forward to it when it does come

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  • evollove
    13 years ago | pl

    I dont think so. In my opinion being sexually intimate with your partner creats a special bond between 2 people. You dont have to fuck like rabbits on the daily... Just often enough where you feel that connection. If you dont feel it...maybe try seeing other people... Ya never know if HES the reason for your "low sex drive"...just sayin.

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  • peterr
    9 years ago | pl

    Oh yes, I forgot to mention that your boyfriend had been having gay sex with me. Does that bother oyu at all?

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