You should talk to him. Ignoring him would only hurt his feelings and you might lose him in the end. I think you're bi-sexual. I date guys but there was a time in my life when I felt extremely possessive over my best friend. I thought of her all the time and I hated it when I felt she was close to any other girl. I just felt so happy being with her and touching her skin felt like electric. I know how you feel, it's pretty confusing.
However, for me, these feelings faded gradually after we moved on from high school. I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now and have no questions that I'm straight. For me, I think it was a phase when I was confused about my sexuality. It's pretty normal and common, trust me, especially when you really have a connection with someone of the same sex as a friend. The platonic kind of feeling might confuse you with the other kind when you guys are this close.
Oh well, you got to figure it out on your own. In any case, talk to him, don't ignore the situation and your feelings. For all you know, he might be feeling the same way about you. I hope you find yourself. Good luck.
Wow your scenario sounded exact same as mine!! The whole connection with a very close friend made me very confused too . I'm a girl as well. I just loved her so much and wondered if there was more to it.
Is it normal to grow obsessive feelings for your best friend?
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You should talk to him. Ignoring him would only hurt his feelings and you might lose him in the end. I think you're bi-sexual. I date guys but there was a time in my life when I felt extremely possessive over my best friend. I thought of her all the time and I hated it when I felt she was close to any other girl. I just felt so happy being with her and touching her skin felt like electric. I know how you feel, it's pretty confusing.
However, for me, these feelings faded gradually after we moved on from high school. I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now and have no questions that I'm straight. For me, I think it was a phase when I was confused about my sexuality. It's pretty normal and common, trust me, especially when you really have a connection with someone of the same sex as a friend. The platonic kind of feeling might confuse you with the other kind when you guys are this close.
Oh well, you got to figure it out on your own. In any case, talk to him, don't ignore the situation and your feelings. For all you know, he might be feeling the same way about you. I hope you find yourself. Good luck.
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Wow your scenario sounded exact same as mine!! The whole connection with a very close friend made me very confused too . I'm a girl as well. I just loved her so much and wondered if there was more to it.