Life experiences drives us apart. Even the most closer friend might change a day or you yourself, and than would not be the same thing again. On the other hands real friendships are always there and you will feel the people close to you even if you are far. I live abroad since 10 yrs so I can guarantee you that especially friendships which end up when two people are phisically distant, were not real friendships. Sometimes were just the best we could get from that environment.
....I dont know if this might be useful for anybody but this is a technique I use in my life, I called it THE RAKE. Like raking in a farm.... there are moments I feel changed, and then I make a RAKE. I mentally check all people I am seeing and considering friends or anyway close people, and I decide if there are people who have to be left behind. I can guarantee you some people NEVER get out and many others are, and when they leave it just feels better for both.
IIN to grow apart from a best friend?
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yes. Is for me one of the most painful feelings.
Life experiences drives us apart. Even the most closer friend might change a day or you yourself, and than would not be the same thing again. On the other hands real friendships are always there and you will feel the people close to you even if you are far. I live abroad since 10 yrs so I can guarantee you that especially friendships which end up when two people are phisically distant, were not real friendships. Sometimes were just the best we could get from that environment.
....I dont know if this might be useful for anybody but this is a technique I use in my life, I called it THE RAKE. Like raking in a farm.... there are moments I feel changed, and then I make a RAKE. I mentally check all people I am seeing and considering friends or anyway close people, and I decide if there are people who have to be left behind. I can guarantee you some people NEVER get out and many others are, and when they leave it just feels better for both.