Is it normal to graduate college a virgin?

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This is more of a curioisity I had and I wanted to ask people if I don't find myself in the correct situation in college, where I like the guy and I'm comfortable, will there be opportunities later in life? Like in my 20's? I'm currently a freshman in my first month of college and lots of the guys I've met I'm not crazy about so my anxiety just takes these ideas and flies. I also went to an all girls highschool so I'm not well versed on how long romantic connections take to form however, I do have guy friends and feel no anxiety or awkwardness talking to guys. This is simply new territory to me. For some reason I have this idea that if I don't have sex/relationships with guys in college, it won't happen in the future and thus, won't feel fulfilled or happy. Advice?

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago | pl

    Don't rush it, save it for someone you love.

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  • Noogas
    7 years ago | pl

    You're a girl. You can get a cock whenever you want. Relax.

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  • billygoatgruff
    7 years ago | pl

    Yes there will be opportunities to have sex well beyond your 20's.

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  • Mrs_Hatake
    7 years ago | pl

    I didn't lose my virginity til I was 22. And I'm glad I waited. That's not too say I didn't have a lot of fun with guys from time to time but never went 'all the way' til I met someone v.special :)
    It's easier said than done but try not to stress about it. When the time is right it'll happen. In the meantime have fun, go out, meet new people and enjoy life :)
    If you find your anxiety levels too much to do the above then go see a therapist or look at a couple of CBT books about anxiety & hopefully that'll get you to a place where life is amazing :)

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  • nobody13
    7 years ago | pl

    Normal, unless you had to turn to a life of prostitution to pay for tuition.

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  • ThingOne
    7 years ago | pl

    If you want it to happen naturally, you have to put yourself in the right social situations. Go to parties to learn better social skills. An all girls high school would leave you socially ignorant.

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  • hurricane27x
    7 years ago | pl

    It is completely normal. Save yourself for the good one.

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  • Gspyder
    7 years ago | pl

    Don't worry about it. When it happens it happens.

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  • Doktor_Hildred_Von_Steinmann
    7 years ago | pl

    Everyone's always in such a rush, just relax and it'll happen when it happens.

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  • 53739
    7 years ago | pl

    I think you should try going to a few parties or hanging out with people you like and you might find a guy this way and end up getting involved with him. But of course if it doesn't happen then don't feel bad about not having sex in college. There will be plenty of time in the future to have relationships.

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