Is it normal to go two years without sex at 26 years old?
I ended a serious relationship with a girl two years ago when she started talking about marriage, and ever since then, things have been pretty dry for me. I dated another girl for a few months shortly after that, but it ended when she broke up with me via text message. At that point, I kind of realized that a friend of mine who always wanted me was exactly who/what I was looking for, but when I told her that, she told me it was "too little, too late", and she had moved on to someone else. I took that pretty hard, and probably deservedly so after the way I had taken her for granted for so long.
Ever since then, I've been stuck in a dry spell, and I've had pretty much zero romantic interaction/attraction with any women. I feel like I've lost all my confidence with women, and that's hard for me to understand because I used to do quite well. In fact, my guy friends even used to approach me for advice on picking up girls. When I talk to girls now though, I can't joke around and make them laugh like I used to be able to. Instead, I feel like I'm on guard or that they are thinking "oh great, here comes another creepy guy to awkwardly hit on me".
I'm not a model or anything, but I think I'm good-looking. I have a good job, look after myself, and I would say I am much more mature now than I used to be. I've had chances to hook up with slutty girls, but I don't want to have sex outside of a relationship, and I don't want to waste my time with someone when I don't think it will work out.
But I don't want to be alone anymore.
Is any of this normal?