Its normal that you haven't dated or had sex in 2 years. Many people your age haven't even had sex or a girlfriend yet. I know I didn't and I really tried but lacked the social skills and a couple of my first experiences taking a girl out would have made most people never try that again. It wasn't stuff as simple as being rejected or ditched either as I find those normal experiences.
Even now I am 30 and haven't had sex in years. I just don't understand how social relationships work and people are very confusing to me but I still put a lot of effort into life and realize I had no control over many of the problems life has given me.
What isn't normal is how much you are getting down on yourself over it. The problems you describe are typical for most people. There is no reason to blame yourself for something you have no control over.
Is it normal to go two full years without sex?
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Its normal that you haven't dated or had sex in 2 years. Many people your age haven't even had sex or a girlfriend yet. I know I didn't and I really tried but lacked the social skills and a couple of my first experiences taking a girl out would have made most people never try that again. It wasn't stuff as simple as being rejected or ditched either as I find those normal experiences.
Even now I am 30 and haven't had sex in years. I just don't understand how social relationships work and people are very confusing to me but I still put a lot of effort into life and realize I had no control over many of the problems life has given me.
What isn't normal is how much you are getting down on yourself over it. The problems you describe are typical for most people. There is no reason to blame yourself for something you have no control over.