Is it normal to go to a strip club with your boyfriend?

so some girls that I work with were telling me how they go to strip clubs with their husbands... and get lap dances with them too. my bf freaked when I asked him if he'd consider doing that with me. not that I have my mind made up or anything...I was just curious about what he'd say. so... is it normal for a couple ( regarless of gender really) to go to a strip club together or am I just asking for trouble?

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Based on 353 votes (211 yes)
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  • pixie_dust

    if a woman can enjoy herself with her man at a strip club, I think it shows self confidence that she doesnt get hung up on the hot naked bitchez dancing everywhere in front of her man.. and its not like hes not ever seen another woman before, so its not like ur getting him to cheat or anythinf.

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  • hotmama50

    i usually go with my husband when he wants to go. i think it's normal. i don't go to necessarily to look at girls but i know he enjoys me being there with him.

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  • lily268

    I agree w/ yayasaga. I've done this before and I liked it but it does depend on your comfort level & personality, so if you are open to new experiences go for it ;)

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  • yayasaga

    It depends on the couple I'm sure. I would say it's normal but more of a comfort level that two people have with eachother.

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  • MichaelCollins

    It is normal for SOME couples. Just because you go to a strip club togather doesnt mean you have alternive sexual practices. I have quite a few friends that go to the stripclubs with their significant other. I also have 4 friends that are dancers and they say that it happens all the time. Like a few of the other people said it depends on the relationship. Dont force anything. In fact if you have never been and would like to go i suggest you go with a couple girlfriends first. Just to get an Idea of what its like. Also what club you choose to go to is a big thing too. Some are actualy aimed more towards couples.

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  • senorita

    The women I work with go to strip clubs with their husbands and they seem to have fun. I am not a personal fan, but if my husband wanted to go I would want to go with him to make sure no women grid up on him!

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  • xxxbeautifullybrokenxxx

    WTF!! You people are disgusting and sick and wow you women who go with your husbands have absolutely no respect for yourselves ugh I'm so sickened by you people. Do you know what marriage is? It's not ok for your husbands to look at other women!!

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    • howaminotmyself

      Whoa there, sounds like you could use some lessons. They make videos now where you can learn in the privacy of your own home. I bet your husband would love it!

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  • jordan23

    It's ok if your gay and you want another girl's snatch all over you

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  • FunGuy

    The first 3 times I went to strip clubs it was because girls took me along.

    It really is fairly normal.

    But if your bf doesn't want to go, don't force him.

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  • NotEverEnuf

    Done that before & we had a great time. Neither one touched any of them but had the best sex when we got home! It's not for everyone. It all depends on the couple & their relationship.

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  • Reina

    It's not that strange, but it's more normal that girlfriends would feel offended/ insecure (if women are stripping in club). If he doesn't want to, then its asking for trouble.

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  • Maybe of your the one dancing lmao

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  • ultramax

    its normal if your ok with it. my girls goes with me and my buddies sometimes, she has even bought me a lapdance on my bday when all the guys took me out. its can be alot of fun to if you are cool and dont get jealous over stupid shit

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  • deepthought33

    If it wasn't normal it surely is becoming so. My husband and I have done so a couple of times. Its funny cuz he puts all the singles in front of ME and then he just sits back and watches.

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  • hotchickie81

    I've gone to some strip clubs with my hubby on several occasions, lol. His friends found it awesome when they found out I went with him.

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  • steph19913

    Haha me and my ex went together it was fun but only an experimental thing not like a weekly thing

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  • sassiecassie

    My husband and I go here and there. It's just for fun but we never get Lap dances cause I don't really want some girl shakin and rubbin all on my hubby.

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  • koolmoedee

    Depends on how secure you are with each other. My ex use to go to strip clubs once in a while with me. It was great. Watching her getting a dance, and i get one.

    Judge by your situation, sometimes its good, most cases it leads to trouble.

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  • just dont force your bf to go if hes uncomfortable going wit you.

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