Girls aren't a reliable source of happiness. They all have unrealistic expectations and you can never be what they want you to be. I'd quit watching porn and masturbating to make it easier for yourself. You can use your sexual energy to do more important things.
Quitting jacking off is terrible advice. Not jacking off will only make him more frusterated and will make things worse. He's already not getting laid, why would you want to take away masturbation for him too?
It will make him frustrated for a few days but after that he won't need it anymore. It can actually be a good motivation for him to start meeting actual girls instead of jacking off.
Abstaining from jacking off does not relieve sexual tension after a couple days. I experimented once to see how long I could go and after a week I was constantly annoyed and started leaking jizz. Eventually I would cum just my rubbing my dick.
It does not work the way you describe.
In fact it is better to jack off before a date to prevent from acting like a pervert.
I do agree with u. Jacking off makes me less of a pervert n keeps me calm. I tried not masturbating n in a few days I realised I was being a prick to others n got angry often :P
I'm a guy and it doesn't relieve sexual tension for you but every body is different. It did work for me and it might work for you too if you don't give up so easily.
This is an interesting debate....unfortunately, there are too many individual variables for us to come to anty generalized conclusions.....does thinking about sex, porn and masturbation " feed " lust and increase sexual desire or do people who masturbate alot, use porn and think about sex have a high sex drive with no normal outlets and use those things as release...I dontnknow...I guess I am more with the latter......I believe if I had a kinky girlfriend I probably would still masturbate and use porn but it would be a lot less...they are substitutes for a real sex life, not causes of a high sex drive....sex drive is based on various chemicals that we have no control over...
I think what you describe is a form of OCD as people who have OCD may use masturbation to reliieve anxiety...in that case they need to treatbthe underlying anxiety
Well I guess it depends on the person. I stopped masturbating for five weeks and I got to a point where I didn't even think about sex anymore and I didn't feel the urge to masturbate. If this works for you too than it means you won't have to suffer anymore. It won't hurt to try. Whatever you choose to do I wish you good luck.
Its like dieting....you can do it for a time and if you really starve yourself you can even stop the desire to do it...until you start eating again...then you will splurge and splurge and splurge...I bet when you went back you did it 10 times a day...its called sexual anorexia.....they are exactly like bulimics....the go long times without and then splurge
How do you quit masturbating.....my cock gets rock hard without me even trying and I need relief...and sometimes you need human contact..I guess I could force myself to go without, but is that even healthy...I think I would killl myself
IIN to go out with a tranny because you cant get a girlfriend
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Quitting jacking off is terrible advice. Not jacking off will only make him more frusterated and will make things worse. He's already not getting laid, why would you want to take away masturbation for him too?
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It will make him frustrated for a few days but after that he won't need it anymore. It can actually be a good motivation for him to start meeting actual girls instead of jacking off.
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I'm going to guess you are not a guy.
Abstaining from jacking off does not relieve sexual tension after a couple days. I experimented once to see how long I could go and after a week I was constantly annoyed and started leaking jizz. Eventually I would cum just my rubbing my dick.
It does not work the way you describe.
In fact it is better to jack off before a date to prevent from acting like a pervert.
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I do agree with u. Jacking off makes me less of a pervert n keeps me calm. I tried not masturbating n in a few days I realised I was being a prick to others n got angry often :P
I'm a guy and it doesn't relieve sexual tension for you but every body is different. It did work for me and it might work for you too if you don't give up so easily.
This is an interesting debate....unfortunately, there are too many individual variables for us to come to anty generalized conclusions.....does thinking about sex, porn and masturbation " feed " lust and increase sexual desire or do people who masturbate alot, use porn and think about sex have a high sex drive with no normal outlets and use those things as release...I dontnknow...I guess I am more with the latter......I believe if I had a kinky girlfriend I probably would still masturbate and use porn but it would be a lot less...they are substitutes for a real sex life, not causes of a high sex drive....sex drive is based on various chemicals that we have no control over...
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Well I guess it depends on the person. I stopped masturbating for five weeks and I got to a point where I didn't even think about sex anymore and I didn't feel the urge to masturbate. If this works for you too than it means you won't have to suffer anymore. It won't hurt to try. Whatever you choose to do I wish you good luck.
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Its like dieting....you can do it for a time and if you really starve yourself you can even stop the desire to do it...until you start eating again...then you will splurge and splurge and splurge...I bet when you went back you did it 10 times a day...its called sexual anorexia.....they are exactly like bulimics....the go long times without and then splurge
How do you quit masturbating.....my cock gets rock hard without me even trying and I need relief...and sometimes you need human contact..I guess I could force myself to go without, but is that even healthy...I think I would killl myself
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It will be hard for a while (literally) but eventually you won't need it anymore. You'll find a girl when you don't need one.