You are both consenting adults, & are not planning anything long term so why does it matter?
If you do start to plan long term, think a lot about it. That is not because it is inappropriate. It is because it is a huge age gap and difference in life stages that one can not simply deny away.
You will still be a young fertile woman, for example, even as he approaches the average age of mortality. You may want children, he may not. If you have children you could be changing his & your child's diapers, and will certainly be raising them on your own, with a feeble "gramps" around as dad, for as long as he's around at all.
And you will almost certainly be a widow quite early in life with many years left to live, alone.
Really think it through realistically, should you contemplate a long term union.
Is it normal to go out with a man 37 years older than you?
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You are both consenting adults, & are not planning anything long term so why does it matter?
If you do start to plan long term, think a lot about it. That is not because it is inappropriate. It is because it is a huge age gap and difference in life stages that one can not simply deny away.
You will still be a young fertile woman, for example, even as he approaches the average age of mortality. You may want children, he may not. If you have children you could be changing his & your child's diapers, and will certainly be raising them on your own, with a feeble "gramps" around as dad, for as long as he's around at all.
And you will almost certainly be a widow quite early in life with many years left to live, alone.
Really think it through realistically, should you contemplate a long term union.