Is it normal to go for older guys

Okay so im a girl dating a guy who is 13 years older than me...we have been friends for almost four years and people keep telling me that he js using me but i really dont think he is. Anyway i would really like to see what everyone thinks and just to let yall know im a very argumentative person

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  • quentari

    Depends how old you are, how old he is, and a bunch of little minor things.

    For example if you're like 15 and he's 28 he probably is just using you. If you're 32 and he's 45 probably not lol.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    He's not using you. It's normal for an older guy to like a younger, fertile girl. It's natural.

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    • amazinme101

      Thanks. all u people on this site are a lot nicer about it than on other sites

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      • GoraIntoDesiGals

        I guess the evil batch is not awake yet lol

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        • amazinme101

          Lol. im glad they arent. tjey arent very helpful. but this question really doesnt matter cuz he broke up with me last night:( but thanks anyway. ur sweet

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          • GoraIntoDesiGals

            Aww sorry *hug*

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            • amazinme101

              Its all good. i shouldve known better and thanks for the cyberhug. i guess thats what u would call it

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  • Hottigene

    No Love I dont think hes using you Im older too and I can tell yoi I Love younger Babes it makes us feel alive and youthful again I Love thst.feeling we Really Appriciate Eomen like This Love!

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    • amazinme101

      Aww thanks. At least someone agrees. You're a lifesaver

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      • Hottigene

        Hey love I got your personel.message request.but when I entered and sent message it did not seem to go though if you still want to talk with me my Gmail is [email protected] Ok.

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  • Age doesn't matter. If a guy's using you, he's using you.

    But, if he loves you (and you love him), be happy together. Anyway, if you call him 'Daddy', he's not actually old enough for that to be creepy.

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    • ThatCreepyWhiteGuy

      Lies

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  • Seustewart

    Hey, I'm looking for a younger lady. :)

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  • farkelu

    @thegypsysailor how old are you? Did you capture her on the high seas? JK!

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  • Hottigene

    Hey havent heard from you lately why dont you text me!

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    • amazinme101

      I'm tryin to text u off jeremiahs number

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  • scoobydoo555

    Totally normal so don't worry about it I wouldn't say he is using you
    I am attracted to girls younger than me all the time its just nature I guess wanting the most suitable mate.

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    • amazinme101

      Thanks. ur obviously nicer than him though if u don't use younger girls though because that's exactly what happened

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      • scoobydoo555

        Awww don't let it get you down. If he didn't appreciate how lucky he was that's his loss. Were not all like that. Hope ur ok and find someone that deserves you soon.

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      • Hottigene

        Its me Gene how you doing today Love!

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  • o_0

    in our society its so common to be with a person with such age difference .. really!! my sister is engaged to a person 10 years older than her.. and they expect a very normal rather happy future life.. people here have a concept that if one amongst two is of such mature age then a relation is more stronger and stable .. where as this match is considered helpful because they believe women get older fast .. so if a man is older than her then both will be quite similar in aging process...
    oh but why am i giving such detail .. i am just clearing the point that its normal for me and may be it turns up to be better .. as per if you're just interested till the dating thing then a little younger would also be suitable and if the man doesn't look too old according to you and is good looking and a good person then go for it.. . also just because he is older doesn't mean he is using you give it a chance maybe you find someone who is far more reliable and mature enough to be spent life with...

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  • Karmasbitch

    Haha
    All too common.
    This is the second post today, that I've seen like this. So yeah, must be normal.

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    • amazinme101

      Thanks and love the name. karma is definitely a bitch

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  • thegypsysailor

    My girlfriend and I have a 41 year age difference! We have an incredibly easy relationship that is still going strong after 2 years. We do everything together and have only been apart when she had to fly to the states for medical reasons; I mean 24/7!
    Of course we are sailing the Caribbean on our yacht, so we don't live the boring mundane life so many of you all do.

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