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I had this ex and she had once a bad personality, I see that she has changed since my break up with her, she is fully a person I can always be together with. A bad personality that used to be a narcissist type personality which I don't see in her anymore.
Is it a normal thing to go back dating my ex again?
Unless there has been a major or significant event in their lives which results in immediate change; or they are intentionally focusing on becoming a better "people person." Change usually occurs slowly - often in the range of 5-10 years.
If they are trying to become a better "people person" the change might occur in 2.5 - 5 years.
How long has it been, and has she had a major event in her personal life that may produce a major rethink on how she behaves?
If its been a long time or there is a clearly identifiable event in their life... I'd still be cautious.
I wish you well with this,
One of the things I noticed about people who change is that they go back to their abusive, undesirable behavior when they get older. If you're going to date her again, approach with caution.
I'd suggest that you be very cautious about this. If she's young, it's possible she might have grown up and become a nicer person to be with. But with exes, there's always a danger that the passage of time will lead to us glossing over the bad things about them and seeing what we want to see.
Used to be a narcissist, huh? How long has it been since you two were together? To what does she attribute this so called change? Did she go through some intensive court ordered therapy, or is she just suddenly acting nice.
Maybe she's lonely, and is looking to come back to you for more narcissistic supply?