Is it normal to go against dreams of your famliy members

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I Belong to High Class Indian Family, who have lots of respect in the society. My whole life I have obeyed them with resepct to my job and even my love life.They wanted me to follow the family line of Service.
But now I have started to realize - I am not like them , I have very different feelings and different dreams for my life.
Now its there dream agianst my dream and I am really devastated.

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  • Tommythecaty
    3 years ago

    Yep

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  • miealone
    3 years ago

    Not an easy task but pretty normal and even possible. Just have courage.

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  • Kool_owl
    3 years ago

    Let's just say if you do not live you're life then one day when you are old you will resent you're family and yourself for not living you're life .
    We only have one life to live .
    Be the leading actor in you're own movie . " life " .
    If not then you will live with" what if " .

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  • Mammal-lover
    3 years ago

    I'm sure alot of people experince this. I cant imagine getting dragged into your families buisness. Fuvk that shit

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  • olderdude-xx
    3 years ago

    It is quite normal to have your own dreams and goals that are different than your family. The most successful people in the world rarely had family support when the started to pursue their dream. Of course, once they became successful their family changed their mind...

    Find someone (a friend, etc.) who can support your dream... and Go For It!

    Might I suggest two books that is likely to help you do that:

    1) "The Compound Effect" by Darren Hardy (its a basic guide on how to be successful at most anything).

    2) "The Masterkey to Riches" by Napoleon Hill. This is Napoleons Hill's final masterpiece where he assembles all the pieces on how to become successful. Note that he list that there are 12 riches in life. Money is only part of the last one.

    I wish you well with this,

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  • XYXY
    3 years ago

    Your life your choices

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    • FromTheSouthWeirdMan
      3 years ago

      I thought you were gonna say "DUMP HER" even tho it was not applicable. How does that make you feeel?....

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      • XYXY
        3 years ago

        Ahh! How sweet you care enough about me to try and predict what I say. Even though what you thought I might say would be totally inappropriate for the post, but I guess you can’t help being a bit dim. Even so it was nice of you to care enough to think about it. It makes me feel very loved, hugs and kisses to you.

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        • Mammal-lover
          3 years ago

          Psst, act a little more aggressive and maybe you'll get into his pants -wink wink-

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          • XYXY
            3 years ago

            Like I’d want to!

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